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mbcasey: I think the OP was just trying to help. I can understand the concerns over some ideas, but I am glad the thread is here.
Most of us here have been lied to one time or another. Some lies were no big deal and we moved on, and some were quite serious and did alot of damage.

I have had personal experience and have been hurt very much. The more attention brought to this subject, the better. Most of you have common sense, street smarts, or a lifetime of learning. Some people here are quite naive, myself included. I am the only one to blame for this, but it is something I need to work on and not to give away trust so easily.

Sparky55: I agree, doesn't hurt to remind folks once in awhile to stay on their guard.

I don't care for the idea of covert black lists as I think it leads to gang mentality and the possibility of black listing an innocent person. Perhaps direct, private confrontation and allowing others the opportunity to learn for themselves would be best.

princemuncher: Wait!!!here's LIARS on CS???
BTW, The thread author's profile says "Firm and toned"
Just sayin'......

Mirodenia: that it took me 6 months to find a nice man, my actual boyfriend

Tater: very true she isn't what I would call toned and firm, maybe she meant toned and firm" in a milkshake kind of way..

Mirodenia: I planned this thread for a while and the idea was coming from my 6 months experience of CS.
I saw some other threads like this but none of them got into a conclusion.
I propose you to discuss the types of liars we met on CS.
I propose to you to come to a conclusion of what is to be done with them in order to avoid losing time and energy.

My input

Types of Liars

A. Married people (especially men)who are looking only for FUN and SEX partners on a wrong site. They pretend to be singles and ready for a relationship - they are not;
B. Scammers. They pretend to be great lovers and they all have some pains in life - sick mother, father, cat, birdie...and ask for help - money;
C. People who lie in the profile (words or pictures). Example: "I am honest, I look for a serious relation, I graduated ...bla bla.." If you get closer, you will see he is looking for anything else but a serious relation, is a liar who wants to attracts women to see his profile... If you say no to a picture exchange or to video chat he will not anymore look for a "serious relationship" - he will vanish instantly;
D. Sick, freak people - they send an e mail and if you reply saying hello, how are you - they never get back. This type is looking, begging for attention - no interest in connection with somebody. Mom didn't pay too much attention to him when he was a child;To be continued...My proposal is to make a black list with them and to circulate it on personal e mails.

laura225: There are a lot of liars on CS, there are plenty of them in RL too (let's eliminate those as well while we are at it ) Great idea!

Someone said a lie detector - not very romantic, but it might work.

Miro, I understand your 'A' and 'B' points (we ALL do) but you can't fight lies with lies. Who will be the judges? Report to mods.
I personally would probably share with close friends too, I think all of us do it.

'C' - why would anyone waste their time reading such descriptions beats me Isn't it in the eyes of beholder?

'D' - don't even go there - just being humans

And, guys, those who said something about 'firm and toned' - the OP, judging by her photos, is a gorgeous woman - and there are lots of photos in her profile; not just one a model-like picture that would leave dumb ones drooling and sharp ones laughing. Why would you concentrate on the 'firm and toned' words? Can't you be kinder, can't you use your imagination?
Or you need a nude picture - to be sure?
I am very surprised that some would qualify it as a lie. IMO it's a OP 'C' category.

As for lists - it's a witch hunt.

sxc666: I think we should have a size list, for all the men who lied about their size

Tater: very true she isn't what I would call toned and firm, maybe she meant toned and firm" in a milkshake kind of way..

venere08: Well, I have been recruiting for a ranch hand.

Mirodenia: I planned this thread for a while and the idea was coming from my 6 months experience of CS.
I saw some other threads like this but none of them got into a conclusion.
I propose you to discuss the types of liars we met on CS.
I propose to you to come to a conclusion of what is to be done with them in order to avoid losing time and energy.

My input

Types of Liars

A. Married people (especially men)who are looking only for FUN and SEX partners on a wrong site. They pretend to be singles and ready for a relationship - they are not;
B. Scammers. They pretend to be great lovers and they all have some pains in life - sick mother, father, cat, birdie...and ask for help - money;
C. People who lie in the profile (words or pictures). Example: "I am honest, I look for a serious relation, I graduated ...bla bla.." If you get closer, you will see he is looking for anything else but a serious relation, is a liar who wants to attracts women to see his profile... If you say no to a picture exchange or to video chat he will not anymore look for a "serious relationship" - he will vanish instantly;
D. Sick, freak people - they send an e mail and if you reply saying hello, how are you - they never get back. This type is looking, begging for attention - no interest in connection with somebody. Mom didn't pay too much attention to him when he was a child;To be continued...My proposal is to make a black list with them and to circulate it on personal e mails.

mickeyscouse: maybe the cs staff will send us all for a polygraph test to
weed out the liars

then tar and feather them