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DAMN!!!!!!!!

Would you teach me to "listen" also??

The borg outfit could be harsh on you. Which costume is the Rennansance one? I don't have one like that.

It is all about the "chase".....you know??? Just when you think you have made a connection with someone, then a new person jumps on board, and that is what bothers me...Everybody wants their 20 minutes of fame...get tired of that one too...If you would just meet right away, without the endless email and calls, that is the best way to know who is serious or not.....

I would like to be seriously interesting and to find someone who is interesting and not serious.

Only a rolled newspaper could do that.

This is true. In the years I´ve been here I spend my time observing because I learned very soon that the likelihood of meeting anybody remotely compatible was virtually impossible.

Observing is interesting, like people watching sitting on a terrace having a coffee. I see people tie themselves up in knots with untruths over a period of time (I have a good memory!)....though I don´t usually comment, and you are so right about attractive newcomers. It´s bees to a honeypot!!!! Boredom with the same old faces sets in.

Obviously some women are different....I just want "normal"....is that to much to ask.....HA.....

I think it is normal to want a normal person; however, we all define normal differently.

I think that people are serious when the time is right. Maybe the timing is off. It has happened to me fairly recently

Only responding to the Headline.

Yes me.


Naw just kidding but I know what you are talking about.Best luck.

I can´t imagine why at 18 years old you´re looking for serious. Between 18 and 25 years old you will do more changing and growing then any other time. Who´s to say that the person who seems perfect for you at 18 is going to grow and change in the same directions you will?

By all means explore relationships and maybe one will last through the changes and you´ll grow in the same directions, but be aware that the person you are now will not be the man you will become in 5 or 6 years and enjoy this period in your life to date and experiment with different types of women and relationships and worry about the serious stuff later. Have fun!

Not in the U S of A, my friend.

NOT me............

I don't know about serious...but man I'm hungry...could sure go for so some cereal...ah ha ha...wow....goodnight.

i do, i want it all, i really question most of the women on this site.

yes I am looking to be serious but most people start differently.

From my dating experiences it seems some people presume that just because a person uses the term "looking for serious", "long term" or "marriage" as a goal it means they will automatically be involved with that person after they meet the first time. When one of the two parties feels the need to end it the other one is left feeling lied to. No, it means they gave it a chance and didn't see the possibility for LTR good. Fact is its about chemistry and it may take a few dates to see if there is enough there to build on. I have been guilty of feeling short changed myself. But also when its there and mutual you are both off and running.

And you CAN find the person here, or any online site. And then maybe not, chemistry has to find you. It cant be forced and its all chance and where you find it is dictated by fate.

I would like to find a serious relationship, don't most of us do?
As you say, you have to build it up, give it time to ripe.
Sometimes you click very fast with the person and the other is slower or does not really mean what he posted on his profile or gently gives you an excuse to let you go but is not sincere about it. I always prefer the truth even if it hurts.
Either way I have learned a lot here meeting people, different personalities, interests, goals, how they feel about women etc.
There is no perfect guy out there; you always have to handle things that are difficult, weird, idealistic, liars, etc.
I am not desperate to find someone; it is difficult to be single as it is to live with somebody.
The only thing is that life is to short to waist your time.
I'm a very committed person to whoever I have affection for, I have never cheated(have an A+ on that) , I'm not a liar, I'm not a jealous person because I believe in trust with out it a real
relationship just will not work.
So answering your question, yes there are people here that want to be serious. Maybe because of that we scare them away!!!

No..

Yes, it is like that. I came here four months ago, and I know I have met lots of men face to face. They say one thing in their profile, but they did not mean it. So when you are with them, they say friendly sex. It will make you head spin if you let it. And do not opt for the friendly sex if you do not want it, and do not be fed with a long handled spoon if you do not want that.

One guy asked me how did I know I could love him.