House wifes,yes or not?

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Arlene101 Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada
somechick: Hi Arlene you've always been so nice to me and have always had some very nice things to me. I apprecite the compliment about me being strong and that i seem to have a grip on everything but... I really don't have a grip on everything as yet.I do have somemore pretty big steps to climb and some things to work out but slowly but surely I'll get there.I think of it as climbing up a mountain where you may you loose your grip every once in awhile but you hold steady and just keep on climbing til hoepfully you reach the top.

As for the friendship I have in this person. He's been there for me and I doubt if I could've found a better friend.

I'd much rather have acouple of real true friendships then a bunch of people who really weren't my friends.
I could not agree with you more. One day at a time. You will have that grip when YOU are ready to. All the best!!hug
Arlene101 Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada
somechick: Hi Arlene you've always been so nice to me and have always had some very nice things to me. I apprecite the compliment about me being strong and that i seem to have a grip on everything but... I really don't have a grip on everything as yet.I do have somemore pretty big steps to climb and some things to work out but slowly but surely I'll get there.I think of it as climbing up a mountain where you may you loose your grip every once in awhile but you hold steady and just keep on climbing til hoepfully you reach the top.

As for the friendship I have in this person. He's been there for me and I doubt if I could've found a better friend.

I'd much rather have acouple of real true friendships then a bunch of people who really weren't my friends.
e fiends are like diamonds--Precious and rare--False friends are like leaves---Found everywhere.wink thumbs up
Arlene101 Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada
Arlene101: e fiends are like diamonds--Precious and rare--False friends are like leaves---Found everywhere.
doh True Friends are like diamonds-precious and rare--
False friends are like leave--Found everywhere.thumbs up



Shirley49WV Mason Co, West Virginia USA
Arlene101: Did you ever think that is why they need you? I am on widow's allowance and disabilty but I can work for short spurts. I just told my my stepmother, if she wants to pay my way to look after her brother in Toronto, give me 24 hours notice and I am there. (She has a gazillion airmiles.) I enjoy that. Go for it! I can't! I am physically disabled to any fulltinme job anymore.


Thank you but most of the nurses just feel like pill pushers. And where I work you have to many patients to nurse ratio. And from all that I have learned that is pretty much the normal. I am leaving all options open. confused
somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
Arlene101: True Friends are like diamonds-precious and rare--
False friends are like leave--Found everywhere.



I knew what you meantlaugh Sometimes I trip over what I want to say too.hug laugh
Arlene101 Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada
Shirley49WV: Thank you but most of the nurses just feel like pill pushers. And where I work you have to many patients to nurse ratio. And from all that I have learned that is pretty much the normal. I am leaving all options open.
Well then move here-we need Doctor's and nurses. Big pay and benefits up the ying yang. Seriously I know that is not an option . The nurses here know more than the doctors unfortunately , they know the patients and are in constant arguements with the Doc's.. My friend died in November and his body wasn't realeased until the next day because there wasn't a a friggin' doctor in our multi million dollar hospital.doh Go for whatever you can physically!
sweetowen Somewhere, Pennsylvania USA
I never had opportunity to be a housewife/stay at home mom. Necessity called me outside of the home. Besides, I could never see myself having to ask anyone for money. I earn it, I spend it, I pay bills with it, etc.
Arlene101 Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada
somechick: I knew what you meant Sometimes I trip over what I want to say too.
If I trip anymore I will need bigger help.laugh hug I am going to check out the other threads and hope to see you all soon.wave
Arlene101 Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada
sweetowen: I never had opportunity to be a housewife/stay at home mom. Necessity called me outside of the home. Besides, I could never see myself having to ask anyone for money. I earn it, I spend it, I pay bills with it, etc.
I was a stay at home Mom for one year and then I did the rest. I hear you loud and clear. Good for you!!!!!thumbs up handshake
Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
I think the days of a woman being a house wife has long pass. Relationships today are mutual partnerships with two equals. The roles get established from the first meeting. I know in my life I have a maid, lawn maintenance, car wash places, dry cleaners, restaurants, and on and on. How we would live and what we would do would be based on who wants to do it. Sometimes you do things because you want to. Sometimes you do them because the other person hates doing them. Hell sometimes things don't get done! That's okay to.



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
Oh I would love to be a housewife, I have worked ever since my children were a month old, because I had to, now they are all at uni, I still have to work to pay for that, and I am looking forward to staying at home for a while, when they are self sufficient enough.

I retire in May, I am taking a year off, to be a housewife.





Beethovenfan West County St. Louis , Missouri USA
I guess I need to clarify myself...I was a housewife, but also worked on my Art from my home....I did not have a studio....It was not 40 hours a week..but, for the most part, I still would call myself a homemaker...There are so many hours in the day you can cook and clean...I have always worked on my art, even in earlier years, amd usually 7 days a week...My industry has changed with the economy....
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
I'm currently a house-mom. I'd be a house-wife with the right husband in a heartbeat. I love it. thumbs up
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
Sommerauer71: Oh I would love to be a housewife, I have worked ever since my children were a month old, because I had to, now they are all at uni, I still have to work to pay for that, and I am looking forward to staying at home for a while, when they are self sufficient enough.

I retire in May, I am taking a year off, to be a housewife.


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Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
Hey since I live my myself I guess I am a house husband or is it houseman?
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
somechick: Me too. I enjoyed having a man to cook special meals for and greeting him at the front door after a hard day at work.Running his bath and giving him back rubs etc.And I also enjoyed being a mom.Being a homemaker was my dream when I was growing up.After watching my mom doing what she did I wanted the very same things she had with my father.




I was the wife that met my husband at the door with a smile, a cold beer, and wearing a negligie. It worked. laugh
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
Big_John: Hey since I live my myself I guess I am a house husband or is it houseman?



Houseboy? laugh laugh I could use one. laugh
Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
dcj22: I was the wife that met my husband at the door with a smile, a cold beer, and wearing a negligie. It worked.


Knock Knock!!!!rolling on the floor laughing
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
Big_John: Knock Knock!!!!



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somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
dcj22: I was the wife that met my husband at the door with a smile, a cold beer, and wearing a negligie. It worked.



My late husband never drank so I greeted him at the door with a hot cup of coffee and me.grin




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