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Not wrong. We live free. You can choose whatever ethnicity you are attracted to.

no, i don't think so.

The option is there

Do you feel it's wrong? I do, but i have my criteria in mind and i do stick to it very much. Stating can be wrong and may lead you to a ridiculous position...
One guy here has written in capitals in another website that he did not at all find black women attractive, so he asked them never to contact me. His posts here are a bit confusing, they go with the flow, i'd think he is racist as well...you will never get his real personality if you don't find it out through his pics anyway, in many of my pics he scores them 10! Is it me, my pics or...? Aaaaaaaah, i must be an exception...so, if he falls in love with me, i better and thank him for the rest of my life?

Why not? Honestly, I'm not prejudiced, but I live in an area that is, so I have two ethnicities that are excluded because of that. Would I turn down someone for that reason if I got to know them and they really were a good match for me? No. But I'd have to know them very, very well and be very, very positive. In my neck of the woods, dating from one of these two races would make me undatable in the future if it didn't work out. So, in my case, call it self-preservation.

It's up to you and only you.

It's a personal choice. It's the person, not the color, for me anyway.

There is nothing wrong in preferring a race to date. But that can perfectly be theoretical, a principle.
I like the tall and blonde ones. It's easy to date them around this part of the globe, believe me. Why don't i date one? Because i choose the guy this time and now i need some resting and organisation in my life.

So, if I'm reading you right from this post and the previous you made...

it's ok for you to prefer tall and blonde, but if a guy put's in his profile (for all to see) that he won't date black women, he's racist???

Forgot to reply to the OP...in the previous post


No, I don't think that's wrong at all... we all have preferences, some may say that looks doesn't matter, but in my world, what turns me on, looks has something to do with it....

Does it matter?

He might not be but sure would look that way, he would be better off saying what he is looking for...

True enough, but sometimes it's easier to know what doesn't turn you on, ie what you're not looking for...

I don't think i will read your post Oslo because the only way you direct a post to me is to venon it all. It must for sure be full of crap. If someone points out my ideas and they happen to question them the same way you do, then you will get the response through that.
I'm quoting your post, but did not read it...i'm not in the mood tonight!

Happy New Year

Charming... a question was asked, and you couldn't reply...


Happy New Year to you too...



Could it be you're waiting for your "sistah" to reply for you???


It's a discussion, you made a statement, and I questioned it...

It's a matter of personal choice and everyone's right to make that decision.

I don't think it is wrong at all. In my experience, I have to be picky about what race I'm dating. One of the races I dated gave me a bad impression of that race and I am seriously turned away from them. Not only was he the one that gave me the impression but also his friends that were the same race. Its anyones right to decide who is right for them.

Of course not, its all about personal preference.... Mmmmm...??!!

sorry that i disagree, but you cannot judge an entire race due to a one or two sample.

but still, it is your choice and opinion and i have to respect that.

cheers