Is it wrong to set criteras for ethnicity??

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cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Mistiful: I don't think it is wrong at all. In my experience, I have to be picky about what race I'm dating. One of the races I dated gave me a bad impression of that race and I am seriously turned away from them. Not only was he the one that gave me the impression but also his friends that were the same race. Its anyones right to decide who is right for them.


Yes it's any ones right to choose any race. But, did that other race experience gave you the most sour experience of your life? You can't be over 20 are you? You seem to have dated THE RACE...you have experienced THE RACE...
A question, there are many ways of screwing up a relationship. Think about if the reason why your relationship had to end was of exclusive of that race.
My worst experience was with a blonde guy...i still prefer them though...by the way, i have mostly dated fair men. Is it time to change? Why? because i might like chilli beans? In principle, i will keep on sticking to the blue eyes. Am i still single because i'm sticking to the blondes? Lol, i got two marriege proposals in my life...from blondes....
I choose the man now...really, i love blondesgrin
RayfromUSA vienne, Rhone-Alpes France
In response to: Is it wrong or absolutely alright to wanna choose what ethnicity you want to end up with or meet?


I don't think it's "wrong" per se.
But personally, I prefer to leave ethnicity out of the equation.

Same for religion, eye color, hair color, etc etc etc.

You never know what might turn up if you leave the door open.




Shirley49WV Mason Co, West Virginia USA
RayfromUSA: I don't think it's "wrong" per se.
But personally, I prefer to leave ethnicity out of the equation.

Same for religion, eye color, hair color, etc etc etc.

You never know what might turn up if you leave the door open.


thumbs up I agree with this poster.



Beethovenfan West County St. Louis , Missouri USA
Yes...I think it is fine...It is a personal choice, though....Depends on the person, and how serious you are with dating...If you just want friendship, why should it matter?? But if you are looking for long term, well that is your call, go with your instincts....... conversing
Yvonne66: Is it wrong or absolutely alright to wanna choose what ethnicity you want to end up with or meet?
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
Nothing wrong with it IMHO.

I personally would never set boundaries in this way.

wine
Jan1305 Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain
Olsojente: Forgot to reply to the OP...in the previous postNo, I don't think that's wrong at all... we all have preferences, some may say that looks doesn't matter, but in my world, what turns me on, looks has something to do with it....


I agree, looks are important, fortunately we all have different taste so there´s enough to go around! but race or colour for me just doesn´t seem to come into the equation. I´ve met black, brown, yellow, white, several nationalities, and found physically attractive and unattractive....to me at least, in all.
Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
We all make choices about the type of person we want to be with. I believe whatever a person makes is okay with me. There are many different types of womem I would like, but I don't expect all people to agree. This is what makes life and this world interesting. We are all different and we like different things.
hedistuff sand fork, West Virginia USA
In response to: Is it wrong or absolutely alright to wanna choose what ethnicity you want to end up with or meet?
Isn't it interesting, the replies posted to this question, when each one of us entered our preferences when filling out our profiles.
cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
hedistuff: Isn't it interesting, the replies posted to this question, when each one of us entered our preferences when filling out our profiles.


Not me but...ahaaaaaaaaaaahwink drinking
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
hedistuff: Isn't it interesting, the replies posted to this question, when each one of us entered our preferences when filling out our profiles.


Why dont you tell us who is spoofing ?

I havent got the inclination to check everyones profile, but as seen as you have you might enlighten us.

Thanks in advance

drinking
Jan1305 Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain
hedistuff: Isn't it interesting, the replies posted to this question, when each one of us entered our preferences when filling out our profiles.


Not me, All I state is clean, smells nice and kind.....IF I were looking, which I´m not!
cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Jan1305: Not me, All I state is clean, smells nice and kind.....IF I were looking, which I´m not!


Precisely, we're not lookingdrinking
hedistuff sand fork, West Virginia USA
vinny1967: Why dont you tell us who is spoofing ?

I havent got the inclination to check everyones profile, but as seen as you have you might enlighten us.

Thanks in advance
I'm only saying that there was a line there offering one the option of listing the types of people that they may have preferrence for. I think the word used was : Preferrence or Preferrences.
cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
cristina: Precisely, we're not looking


If that was a condition for posting, i'd be a scamhelp
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
hedistuff: I'm only saying that there was a line there offering one the option of listing the types of people that they may have preferrence for. I think the word used was : Preferrence or Preferrences.


thumbs up

cheers



DJlaysitup Chamblee, Georgia USA
Jan1305: Not me, All I state is clean, smells nice and kind.....IF I were looking, which I´m not!


Interesting (from the old days - around 1980) I was at a College - a big one - it had many foreign students, The Iranians were the BEST at Foosball. I went to a dance place (big place) with my girl and got a table. Her sister was there with us - not sure if she had a date or not - maybe looking or hoping (she wasn't as pretty). An Arabic guy (likely Iranian) comes up and asks my girl to dance. She said no...then he asks her sister and she says no. This phucker got all upset and said I had two women and he wanted one. He even offered me money.

I thought about it a minute....then said NO. That didn't stop it. He still wanted a woman...I said get the FFFF out of here you oddball. Then I stood up and glared at him (ready to smack him bad)....he left.
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Each to their bloody own. Race, color, upbringing, lifestyle. Who gives a rats frigin ass. The human race all have a heart and brain that's all I care about.wine



DJlaysitup Chamblee, Georgia USA
Olsojente: True enough, but sometimes it's easier to know what doesn't turn you on, ie what you're not looking for...


Exactly O - hate to jump in here but I cannot fathom being with a girl with kinky hair.

Skin color isn't as important. Sorry.



DJlaysitup Chamblee, Georgia USA
LOL sxc - you better tighten your "dating habits".
Vido1 Khobar Saudi Arabia
In most of the replies to this thread I agree: Go for it.

Just be aware of what "they" say about certain kinds of people - it has some serious background and it's not sucked out of their thumbs. But make your own judgement!




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