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Beethovenfan West County St. Louis , Missouri USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 6:54 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
I feel strange and uncomfortable being on any site that someone is on that I was intimate with...Does anyone else ever feel that way?? I go out of my way to find a place that he is not on, and that seems impossible.....need help!!!!: sad flower
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KrazieStill Bristol, Connecticut USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 7:03 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
I haven't had that happen but would feel strange I suppose but try to remain civil. I would probably end up leaving but stay in contact off-site with friends.
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Shirley49WV New Haven, West Virginia USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 7:04 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
I don't have that problem but the past should be just that...the past.
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SexyAttorney Clearwater, Florida USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 7:50 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
Yes, and I completely understand your feelings Beethoven. Been there, done that response from me.
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cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Fri Jan 2, 2009 7:52 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
Tell me who he is and i'll threaten him

sad flower
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Dknew Lee, New Hampshire USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 7:52 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
Nope doesn't bother me at all.
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LACali Southern California, California USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 7:55 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
Dknew: Nope doesn't bother me at all.


Well, it bothers me. I can't stand seeing you on here every day. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dknew Lee, New Hampshire USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 7:56 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
LACali: Well, it bothers me. I can't stand seeing you on here every day.




comfort comfort rolling on the floor laughing
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Beethovenfan West County St. Louis , Missouri USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 8:04 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
Obviously it bothers me...I am still talking about it.....shhhh..go away will you...(to him).....haha....
Dknew: Nope doesn't bother me at all.
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hedistuff sand fork, West Virginia USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 8:10 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
In response to: I feel strange and uncomfortable being on any site that someone is on that I was intimate with...Does anyone else ever feel that way?? I go out of my way to find a place that he is not on, and that seems impossible.....need help!!!!:
It throws a quirky little something into the mix, each sometimes being aware of the other's activity.
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Charli15695 Dallas, Texas USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 9:10 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
OOOOOOOO --- never been there - can see how that would be a bit odd feeling - but hopefully maturity would rule the day and the 2 people involved could respect each other's privacy -- but...this is CS - anything goes! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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countryangel79 chardon, Ohio USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 9:16 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
It doesn't have to even be an ex to make you feel uncomfortable. There are so many people who follow forums and some how figures out who people talk to outside of forums and cause drama for them when they don't want it or deserve it. Mostly because they are unhappy and usually want to be with one of the individuals and can't be. It happened to me a while ago. Still don't have a clue who it was either so I fear talking to anyone who I don't already know because of it. JMOdunno But don't let that kind of stuff from finding the love of your life.
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Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 9:18 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
It won't bother me until I work through every women on this site. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Beethovenfan West County St. Louis , Missouri USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 9:31 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
cute one...very cute.....
Big_John: It won't bother me until I work through every women on this site.
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relaxin somewhere, Queensland Australia
Fri Jan 2, 2009 9:56 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
yes i think it would feel strange being on the same site but i also dont know if i would be able trust writing anything on the forums either as they may make trouble and i am not into confrontational scenes on a personal level.
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Dude1969 Rochdale, Lancs, Greater Manchester, England UK
Fri Jan 2, 2009 10:05 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
Shhhh I once chatted my ex up. she didnt put up any pic's and the site said we were a perfect match rolling on the floor laughing

so I mailed her ! she phoned me and told me...
I went white uh oh

that was Erm... plentyof came here out the way
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Beethovenfan West County St. Louis , Missouri USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 10:08 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
Forums are the worse place to settle personal matters....It was a general post of view points...No man wants confrontation...I think many have seen someone on a site that they dated, and it is an option on how to deal with it....
relaxin: yes i think it would feel strange being on the same site but i also dont know if i would be able trust writing anything on the forums either as they may make trouble and i am not into confrontational scenes on a personal level.
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druidess6308 Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 10:19 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
I don't know yet...and I don't think I want to find out. Thankfully, things never got that far yet with anyone from here that's in forums.
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buzzy biddeford, Maine USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 10:32 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
cristina: Tell me who he is and i'll threaten him


Cristina is ready to throw down. I know a Cristina and she is the same way. I love your passion.applause
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buzzy biddeford, Maine USA
Fri Jan 2, 2009 10:35 PM CST : Do you ever feel odd being on the same site with a former bf?? or gf?
Beethovenfan: I feel strange and uncomfortable being on any site that someone is on that I was intimate with...Does anyone else ever feel that way?? I go out of my way to find a place that he is not on, and that seems impossible.....need help!!!!:


Practice peace and forgivness and they will be granted to you.
To your health and happiness.cheers
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