Hey everyone,
James and I have been in contact since he posted this thread, I was not aware of his intentions to come over and visit until recently. We had our problems and from both our sides we honestly tried working things out. Being in a long-distance relationship already has its problems just by being long-distance. But I can swear on my life that I didn't have anyone else while we were together.
James can testify to the fact that we have tried EVERYTHING and I do mean EVERYTHING to be together. The ONLY other option we had was for him to come over and get married here in South Africa. Since he had to go to school, and me having started a new job, it was kind of out of the question. I still have deep feelings for him and I miss him terribly, and believe me I would do anything to be with him. But for me to waste another couple of thousand rand to get a visa which would not be approved would be pure stupidity.
I would still love for him to come over......