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So if I want to live with a beautiful bimbo I should hang out at the Playboy mansion more often to find her?

Always happy to see you Sommer and to have something interesting to talk about in threads.

Couldn't think of a better place to find one.
If you feel that's what you need then go for it John!!!

So hanging out at Church will get me a Nun?

So your saying I'm not real Vinny? Just kidding! Hope your having a great weekend.

Pleasure, more people do think about an individual now than before, we are more exposed to many more people than ever before, because of the internet, but there is alot of culturising and generalising that exists here and many other places.



Herd mentality, or to be really blunt, trophy chasing, or to be really blunt, lack of intelligence.



I agree.



No, I do not think you are losing it, you have made perfect sense.

Sleep well.

Real was probably the wrong term

but in relation to the thread

if you are meeting a person who contradicts themselves

regularily you really don't know what to expect and would have

no true sense of them.

Oh you know me, I love a good old discussion and one that can be had with respect, it makes such a difference.

Another thing I have learnt is that it is so easy to rethink a situtation and learn something from people, which I do often from here.

And a joy for me that you came and joined us all.

Ah now I get you.

Yes, this can be a problem, Vinny.

Nial on the head and all that.

Hello Sommer..

I am shy until you get to know me..

Yeh i know who would of quess..

Its different when you are sitting behind a computer..you can
say anything you wish and wont get a slap in the face

When Eric and I met nothing was of surprise,,

We were who we said we were on here..and the pictures were
of recent..

Now we are more used to each other and he probably wishes i
was shy again

Hi KMD.

Oh I love your 'different when sitting behind a screen', fantastic.

And so very true.

And look how it has all worked out, KMD, wonderfully...

One of the success stories here.

I have met people online way back when it wasn't fashiinable.

And not on dating sites.
First one was on a Community Building site, ala M.Scott Peck, where the day before I left to go o/s for 3 mths, I posted a message requesting if anyone had any accommodation at their home in New York for April that year, as I would be there for few weeks. To cut a long story short, I received a reply from a guy in Texas offering my a place to stay if ever I went there. Well I replied out of courtesy saying, 'you never know' and left a forwarding address in Pisa, Italy at my aunt's place. Blow me down there was a letter waiting for me when I visited her. From the guy in Texas. I actually ended up flying to Dallas Fort Worth From New York in April and stayed at his home for 10 days. We still email each other. It's been 12 yrs. And no hanky panky and was treated like a princess.

Second time I was researching a professional site. I emailed the director of the clinic. His P.A. replied on his behalf and he received the message on his return from an African safari. Yeah, I know Well, next thing you know, I find myself months later, travelling to Maryland, he paid for the return airfare for me and I stayed with him and his wife for 2 weeks at their home, they had cooks, cleaners, garndeners. Even deer for me to look at on my morning walks through their acreage.

So, John, you can tell your friends, online people, well mowst of them, are real people, who are part of RL.

sorry, 'fashionable'!.

In real life, people don't get on my nerve...because...because...i choose my company

It's good to get to know myself here

Nuns are not the way they use to be years ago....

Oh it is Cris, hi by the way.

But here if people get on your nerves then there is nothing to say that you have to endure that.

You can as in life, chose to ignore them.

I do.

Dan, I would almost think that impossible.

That's a very good point, Vinny. Most here are true to themselves when they answer, though. And consistent. I have had times, though, in a thread where a response from someone else made me think further on a subject, and reconsider my stance. And one where as I was writing one response, and the one most expected from me, I discovered that it was not how I felt about it. Shocked me as much as it did some others. But, it was real.

I am the same on-line as I am off...in fact...I write the way I talk...type O's excluded... and have the exact same wacky sense of humour....Oh and I talk just as much....I can be a bit shy when first meeting someone depending on my comfort level with the person...if they are talkative like me though...then we are good to go.....

Well not always. I'm an ex-nun and you won't find me in church......