In response to: Represent who we are in life?
I ask this because it has been something that since meeting with PPV, we have discussed.
I look like my pictures, coz they are me, he is the same as he portrays here, obviously he talks less than he writes, I mean honestly, most of you saw what he had written.
So, are you quieter, noisier, more shy, face to face than on here?
I have read so many times when people have met that they are not the same as they are online.
I think that although this is a more difficult medium in which to get to know someone, there are often tell-tale giveaways that give us insight into who people really are in real life and what they expect from us.
For instance I recently got an e mail, from a young man who started off by saying that he thought all thin women were skinny bags of bones, young women were scatty, and blondes were vacuous and all looked alike. He apparantly wanted a real woman with a bit of weight on her, mature he called it. He said they were much more "open" and fun.
I sent a reply asking what he really wanted, and after giving him some options from some of the more base things I have been asked on here, told him that I don't do any of those, and........ he stopped mailing.
Funny that, isn't it? Disappeared right into the woodwork like the louse he was......
Now maybe he thought flattery would get him what he wanted, and that older women are desperate enough to fall for it, but to any woman with half a brain he was hiding nothing of his real intentions.
Sometimes we don't need body language......
