Beethovenfan: Well, when you do catch them , most of the time, the timing is off...IS it really worth it anyway?? If there is not chemistry from the beginning, it isn't going to happen.....
You cannot say in general, coz everyone is different.
I know many guys, who only get interested when a woman is not interested. To get her anyway is a much bigger turn on for them, even if she does it just to get him off her back.
I am totally opposite: I appreciate if a woman has initiative and is capable of doing the first step! But it is also difficult for me, if the woman is absolutely not my type. I don't like to hurt somebody, coz I have been in that situation also many times.