Justme4uok: But what about the folks that find it...... but don't pay attention to it.... because they think there is always something better out there.... Are those the Love chemstry Junkies?
I've run into a few of these, and yes, they're the ones who end up hurting people.
Or is it possible that chemistry or clicking can only be felt by one person? You've met a guy, you're strongly attracted to him, you can't wait to see him again.....and then he tells you there's just no chemistry there. WTF???
You ask yourself "what've I been feeling for the last month?"
It really makes you start to wonder if you know what it feels like anymore.
There's even been times when I haven't felt it right off, but was willing to give it a 2nd try but never got the chance. That was here just recently, and I think that's just because he really doesn't want to invest the time necessary to build a relationship.
Then we have those that we think we'd connect with & never get the chance because they either refuse to respond, or refuse to commit to meeting....lol It's never ending.
I also won't settle, I want it all, but seriously I'm wondering anymore if I'll even know what it feels like.