Dawn7z: Stop these low self esteem threads right now. I looked at your pics you are a good looking guy. Flower women, email them realizing the worst they can do is say no or ignore you. You are young get out there and get involved in coed activities that are not in clubs look online for groups that might meet in your area. Find some good women friends and go from there ones that share some interest with you.
Oh, stop riding him........ he wants to do it his way