Ladies Only Falling in Love Again

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Nobunaga Gardena, California USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:03 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

Ladies, permit me to humbly seek your personal thoughts and advices.

Does falling in love again scares you ?

Tonight, I wonder about those who were in a long term relationship and marriages that has since faltered, did it feel like you could give all your love again without a small doubt ?

BTW: No, I have not found someone yet.

kellydenise cleveland, Ohio USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:06 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

Nobunaga: Ladies, permit me to humbly seek your personal thoughts and advices.

Does falling in love again scares you ?

Tonight, I wonder about those who were in a long term relationship and marriages that has since faltered, did it feel like you could give all your love again without a small doubt ?

BTW: No, I have not found someone yet.

I wouldn't say it scared me, but i am more caution now

Nobunaga Gardena, California USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:08 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

kellydenise: I wouldn't say it scared me, but i am more caution now

Hi Kelly

would being cautious equals doubt ?

hopefloats67 Williamstown, West Virginia USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:12 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

My husband of 13 years passed away very suddenly. Falling in love again is very scary.

kellydenise cleveland, Ohio USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:13 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

doubt like distrust...no. caution, like i may notice things that i may not have before, like warning signs.

Nobunaga Gardena, California USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:14 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

Sorry to hear that Hope ! If my questions are too personal, you don't have to answer. May I ask why it scares you ?

spicey1 St. Louis, Missouri USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:14 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

I was in a relationship for a long time, and since the break up every potential relationship since has been a disaster. Whether it was my own fear, or trying to find a "replacement" or whatever. So I would say yes it is scary.

dcj22 Somewhere, South Dakota USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:16 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

It scares the hell out of me, but it's also exciting.

Nobunaga Gardena, California USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:18 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

Thanks Kelly !

I guess that's what I am feeling too, honestly I don't like to feel this way. You know have doubts. I have always given my all, but this would be the first time that I have this nagging doubt.

In a perfect world, it would be nice to have no doubts at all when we meet that certain someone.

hopefloats67 Williamstown, West Virginia USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:19 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

Well, this was the person I was going to spend my life with, the person I started a family with. Having that relationship took work on both of our parts, a successful relationship takes work. Taking another step toward meeting someone new and giving all of yourself feels like I'm setting my self up to only have my life crash around me.

Nobunaga Gardena, California USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:20 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

spicey1: I was in a relationship for a long time, and since the break up every potential relationship since has been a disaster. Whether it was my own fear, or trying to find a "replacement" or whatever. So I would say yes it is scary.

Do you think that this "fear" would die out eventually ? Do you feel trapped for having this doubt of falling in love again ?

Thanks for responding !

Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:20 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

In response to: Ladies, permit me to humbly seek your personal thoughts and advices.

Does falling in love again scares you ?

Tonight, I wonder about those who were in a long term relationship and marriages that has since faltered, did it feel like you could give all your love again without a small doubt ?

BTW: No, I have not found someone yet.

I used to be afraid...now I am just cautious at who I give my heart to...and I take my time...lessons it took me a long time to learn...but the right man will let me go at my own comfortable pace...and not try to push for something too quick....

mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:27 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

Hope,
I want to be as sensitive as possible towards your situation. You need to give yourself sometime to heal. No, the next guy won't fail you. Everything happens for a reason, and for difficult situations such as yours, you build your strength, and gain courage, hope and faith, and you put one foot in front of each other. You can and you will, always remember that!

spicey1 St. Louis, Missouri USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:31 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

Nobunaga: Do you think that this "fear" would die out eventually ? Do you feel trapped for having this doubt of falling in love again ?

Thanks for responding !

I hope this fear dies out soon! Sometimes it feels like I am trapped.

catlover37 palmerston north, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:31 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

i have found that finding the right guy to open your heart back up to is scary,it takes time and commitment.be patience as love can be found for a second time

mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:31 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

No, falling in love doesn't scare me. However, I try not to be too quick to say I love you, because that scare some guys away. I would prefer to know that the guy really cares about me before I say anything.

Nobunaga: Ladies, permit me to humbly seek your personal thoughts and advices.

Does falling in love again scares you ?

Tonight, I wonder about those who were in a long term relationship and marriages that has since faltered, did it feel like you could give all your love again without a small doubt ?

BTW: No, I have not found someone yet.

HzChld Somewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:35 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

Nobunaga: Ladies, permit me to humbly seek your personal thoughts and advices.

Does falling in love again scares you ?

Tonight, I wonder about those who were in a long term relationship and marriages that has since faltered, did it feel like you could give all your love again without a small doubt ?

BTW: No, I have not found someone yet.

I was married for 26 yrs. Have been divorced (not my choice) for 6-7 yrs. I am in no hurry to give my heart, or my time, to another.
Could I give ALL my love again without a small doubt...Not sure.

mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:55 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

My question to you Nobunga. What really prevents you from falling in love again? It appears that you have more confidence within yourself now, than you did in the previous relationship. You are more attune with your thoughts and feelings, am I correct?

Nobunaga: Ladies, permit me to humbly seek your personal thoughts and advices.

Does falling in love again scares you ?

Tonight, I wonder about those who were in a long term relationship and marriages that has since faltered, did it feel like you could give all your love again without a small doubt ?

BTW: No, I have not found someone yet.

mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sat Jan 3, 2009 10:59 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

Nobunaga: Thanks Kelly !

I guess that's what I am feeling too, honestly I don't like to feel this way. You know have doubts. I have always given my all, but this would be the first time that I have this nagging doubt.

In a perfect world, it would be nice to have no doubts at all when we meet that certain someone.

When you have nagging doubts , its because the situation you now find yourself in, is not the right one for you at this time. It may be allright further down the road, but something now need fixing , reparing or rejuvenating first.

SexyAttorney Clearwater, Florida USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 11:05 PM CST : Ladies Only ! ~ Falling in Love Again

I find falling in love to be exciting, exhilerating, adventurous, and thrilling! Falling OUT of love is the scarey part.......

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