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Yes it scares the living daylights out of me. I never want to go through what I have as a single mom. the things he did to me and his child should never be done to anyone. JMO

Hi

I think I can take that leap of faith. doubts perhaps of being hurt. Then again, I have been hurt so many times that I have become stronger on the next relationship.

In my mind, I won't hesitate to fall in love again. Its the heart that says "whoa ! are we gonna go through this again !"

Hi ountryangel79

Would you feel the same when the "right" one comes along ? despite the horrific past you and your child suffered, would not being loved and to be in love part of our spiritual and emotional growth ?

Hi mychelle

I believed that I can take that leap of faith. My doubts are perhaps of being hurt. Then again, I have been hurt so many times that I have become stronger and wiser for the next relationship.

In my mind, I won't hesitate to fall in love again. Its the heart that says "whoa ! are we gonna go through this again !"

Hi Spicy !

What are your fears ? Rejection ? Pain ?

Scare me? Nope. I don't think it will happen again. I think in the end, if I do find someone, it will be a...mutual fondness....but not love.

yes that's scary. The thing I find surprizing is how ladies are so picky...they all want Brad Pitt. In the normal media it says that a fella with a good job - age 50 - not a Goon - should be able to get dates. Yet you girls are so pickey ?? Just lay down..put your right leg in the air and your left leg going the other way....talk and kiss if you want.

I never did like Brad Pitt.

Neither did I....being a guy

But what I was trying to say is girlz are just so pickey these days. Heck I've had a spot on E-H for awhile and all this "ladies looking for love" is crappollla.

6 foot - 205 pounds - W - ?? no answers

P.S. - make money - have a job - it's all B.S....the girls want Brad Pitt.

No, I'm really not scared. I'm a very independent person. I take things pretty much in stride. If the glove doesn't fit, I take it off & find one that does, so to speak. I go on gut feelings. If something gives me a funny gut feeling, I'll find a way to move away from it. The right one is out there, just waiting.

Maybe the girls want Brad, but the women want more.

I am very particular and have a right to be. I am too comfortable with myself to ever settle. It takes humor, quick wit, intellect, and a personality to trip my trigger, while a job is secondary as long as he can support himself.

Bullshit.

Who the hell is Brad Pitt and what does he has to do with my question ?

I have been divorced three times, and then finally found a great man that I had a wonderful relationship with for two years until he died. I was scared for a while. I didn't think I could risk all of that again. Then I did risk it all again, and got hurt again very recently. And I thought it would take time before I would heal and be ready to risk it again.

Now, I've healed, and I realize that life is all about risk. No, I'm no longer afraid to give my heart to someone again. I'm strong enough to do it and to survive whatever happens. And I realize that I need to find someone to have mutual love and respect with, to share life's journey with, again. I'm just coming into it more complete and whole than I ever have before, and I'm not willing to settle for less than what I seek.

I love the way you put all of this. Well said.

A famous, and supposedly handsome, actor that many girls drool over. He's saying that women want something that isn't real, not something that is...they want a man to be rich and handsome.

As Sexy Attorney said, maybe the girls want that...the women seek more.

Ah that Brad Pitt ...Sorry ! I don't see myself drooling to some handsome actor anytime soon !

I hope not. But...what about actresses?

Don't think I'm scared to fall in love (can't say again because I'm not sure I was when I got married...lol)

I think what I'm scared of is going through another divorce. I don't want to be one of those who can't keep a 2nd marriage going.