indienartz: A married lady with 2 kids is behind me to strat an extra marital relationship-I dont know how to handle this situation. She is desperate but i don't want to fall into a trap- Plz suggest how should i handle this situation?
If she is married with 2 kids and willing to be with you, personally I would not trust her. For her to put her kids in the middle of everything? No way. If she was already separated, divorced, etc., where it did not affect the kids, that would be different. The husband may be a poor husband, but he may be a good father. Sneaking around is not a quality I seek in a woman, unless she is extremely hot (just kiddin). If she is willing to do this to him, what would she possibly do to you in the future? You may be the next possible ex, and I could be you. You may be opening up a present that you dont want. Just something to think about.

(be careful)