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2enopaC St.Albans, Hertfordshire, England UK
Sun Jan 4, 2009 9:57 AM CST : Your best friend could be your worst enemy.
As a common issue, most of us have girlfriends and girls have boyfriends and those who have married etc….

You would believe that you have a best friend ever. A friend you can trust in everything. Well, You are deadly wrong. Your best friend could be your worst enemy in the world .

Take my example. I had a close friend whom we shared almost everything since school. I had girlfriend and he had his. We shared what we did to our girls and we made jokes and laughed. I never new he wanted my girl, he was dying that I let her go so that he could get her. He encouraged me that we change girls, we should not waste our time with the same girls in which I did but normally I keep good relation with the girls I left.

Years past and we kept on changing the girls leaving the old girlfriend for others. Surprisingly my best friend decided to marry one of my old x girlfriends. He could not tell me because it was kind of idiot thing to do. I had been telling him all what me and that girl did and today he married her. He could not put his face in-front of mine. He started being my enemy from best friend. I didn’t know this is happening because we were very close friends. I was still visiting him but I started to see those horror eyes from him. He kind of disliked me visiting him so I noticed that and decided not to visit him anymore. Very slowly he instructed his wife not to say hello to me when we meet somewhere. Very slowly he does not want to speak to me any more and now when he sees me a hundred miles he will take another direction.

I still had a good relation with his wife just as friends and nothing else but he warned her that something horrible could happen either to me or to her if he finds out we had communicated. So I stopped communicating with her just for her sake.

Now I have a worst enemy. My own best friend and I still remember the good days we had together.

So people, don’t ever think you could have a best friend if he or she is not after something
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2enopaC St.Albans, Hertfordshire, England UK
Sun Jan 4, 2009 10:13 AM CST : Your best friend could be your worst enemy.
Another incident I can tell. It is about a good neighbour of mine.

This neighbour is a very friendly person. He married just few month ago. He works at airport. As you know work at the airport has shifts. That is some people work in the day, some from none and some at night.

This good neighbour had a good colleague of his, also his neighbour. They both work in the same field at the Airport but in different shifts.

The two colleagues became very close friends. They visited each others house and discuss their own issue. The guy never new his good friend’s intention. He didn’t know that his friend was just after his wife and the good friend relation was to get to know the wife better.

One day, the good neighbour as usual left home for work. As soon as he arrived to the office he noticed that he forgotten his work ID and would be difficult for him to walk around the Airport without it. There was still enough time for him to drive home and collect his ID so he drove back home. To his surprise he saw his friend’s car parked by his car parking. So he opened his house door slowly and heard noise coming from his bedroom. He worked slowly and guess what was happening. His best friend is sleeping with his wife doing it. To his surprise, he just picked up his ID card and left without doing anything. He returned back to work until evening, drove back home and asked his wife to park her cloth, he gave her a divorce paper and drove her back to her family.

I met these two couples several times before they were divorced. They looked like they were really happy family.
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tina_olson Westby, Wisconsin USA
Sun Jan 4, 2009 10:14 AM CST : Your best friend could be your worst enemy.
When I was in high-school,senior year a guy from a nearby town liked me,we hung out and went on 1 date, I really liked him but was always so shy...Because of that he took an interest in my best friend-after high-school they married and I was maid of honor in there wedding....Years later they divorced and when I ran into him he apoligized for hurting me so many years ago....As I told him we are all adults and it just wasn't meant to be, but I had always wished them the best!!! Old girlfriend or not you must have broke up with her for a reason so should it matter who either found happiness with.....
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Beethovenfan West County St. Louis , Missouri USA
Sun Jan 4, 2009 3:55 PM CST : Your best friend could be your worst enemy.
tina_olson: When I was in high-school,senior year a guy from a nearby town liked me,we hung out and went on 1 date, I really liked him but was always so shy...Because of that he took an interest in my best friend-after high-school they married and I was maid of honor in there wedding....Years later they divorced and when I ran into him he apoligized for hurting me so many years ago....As I told him we are all adults and it just wasn't meant to be, but I had always wished them the best!!! Old girlfriend or not you must have broke up with her for a reason so should it matter who either found happiness with.....
I had a similar experience with a high school love and a girlfriend...We were all in a group, and when they got together at a party I did not attend, they started dating, and eventually got married...I was not in their wedding, but remains friends with him, not her..I have a problem trusting women at times since then..Men, well...what can I say? Men are Men, but your best friends?? different story.....roll eyes
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Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
Sun Jan 4, 2009 4:01 PM CST : Your best friend could be your worst enemy.
2enopaC: As a common issue, most of us have girlfriends and girls have boyfriends and those who have married etc….

You would believe that you have a best friend ever. A friend you can trust in everything. Well, You are deadly wrong. Your best friend could be your worst enemy in the world .

Take my example. I had a close friend whom we shared almost everything since school. I had girlfriend and he had his. We shared what we did to our girls and we made jokes and laughed. I never new he wanted my girl, he was dying that I let her go so that he could get her. He encouraged me that we change girls, we should not waste our time with the same girls in which I did but normally I keep good relation with the girls I left.

Years past and we kept on changing the girls leaving the old girlfriend for others. Surprisingly my best friend decided to marry one of my old x girlfriends. He could not tell me because it was kind of idiot thing to do. I had been telling him all what me and that girl did and today he married her. He could not put his face in-front of mine. He started being my enemy from best friend. I didn’t know this is happening because we were very close friends. I was still visiting him but I started to see those horror eyes from him. He kind of disliked me visiting him so I noticed that and decided not to visit him anymore. Very slowly he instructed his wife not to say hello to me when we meet somewhere. Very slowly he does not want to speak to me any more and now when he sees me a hundred miles he will take another direction.

I still had a good relation with his wife just as friends and nothing else but he warned her that something horrible could happen either to me or to her if he finds out we had communicated. So I stopped communicating with her just for her sake.

Now I have a worst enemy. My own best friend and I still remember the good days we had together.

So people, don’t ever think you could have a best friend if he or she is not after something



I hear ya...with friends like that who needs enemies...been there myself....but the way I reason it is...when someone lays in wait to have what you have and takes joy in your pain...then they were really never friends to begin with...soooooo it's not great loss....and if your so called friend thinks controlling his wife is the answer...he will be the destruction of his own marriage...that only stems from jealousy...which I'm sure she is really pleased with...oh and the threat...HMMMMM...If I were her...those woulda gave me my walkin papers...In trying to hold too tight to his marriage by threats and control...his worst nightmare will come true...he is gonna lose it instead...but then...with his actions...he deserves to...wave wink roll eyes hug kiss hug
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rizlared Pisa, Tuscany Italy
Sun Jan 4, 2009 4:10 PM CST : Your best friend could be your worst enemy.
Life is full of experiences, we have the choice to ignore them or learn from them.

One experience that I have learnt is that what is poison to one person is wine to another.
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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Sun Jan 4, 2009 6:18 PM CST : Your best friend could be your worst enemy.
2enopaC: Another incident I can tell. It is about a good neighbour of mine.

This neighbour is a very friendly person. He married just few month ago. He works at airport. As you know work at the airport has shifts. That is some people work in the day, some from none and some at night.

This good neighbour had a good colleague of his, also his neighbour. They both work in the same field at the Airport but in different shifts.

The two colleagues became very close friends. They visited each others house and discuss their own issue. The guy never new his good friend’s intention. He didn’t know that his friend was just after his wife and the good friend relation was to get to know the wife better.

One day, the good neighbour as usual left home for work. As soon as he arrived to the office he noticed that he forgotten his work ID and would be difficult for him to walk around the Airport without it. There was still enough time for him to drive home and collect his ID so he drove back home. To his surprise he saw his friend’s car parked by his car parking. So he opened his house door slowly and heard noise coming from his bedroom. He worked slowly and guess what was happening. His best friend is sleeping with his wife doing it. To his surprise, he just picked up his ID card and left without doing anything. He returned back to work until evening, drove back home and asked his wife to park her cloth, he gave her a divorce paper and drove her back to her family.

I met these two couples several times before they were divorced. They looked like they were really happy family.


What? He sounds like a real multi-tasker. help giggle

Seriously though, i had a 'friend' like that, once. We fell out, but made up a few months ago. Life goes on. thumbs up
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