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vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
stefonline: Hiya Vinny,It dos'nt matter what I think....what does it matter....I am more of a realist...I too have some I connect with for the duration of my stay...

Spain was just great just what the doctor ordered...I just got home yesterday....and I am so cold since....brrrrrrrrrr


Ah well I was wonderin cause of your greater experience....

I'm too naieve anyway..........so what do I know......

yeah you came home at its coldest.........it dropped over the xmas but y/day and today were the worst......

Good to see you

teddybear
stefonline Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Oh no Vinney you are not Naieve....I would call it more gullible from where I have been standing (meaning Me not you)

But you do learn along the way and thank god for the lessons...

I am watching tv movie on with Harrison ford on RTE...I have seen it before...about a drugs Kartel in south america but it's good...also wrapped up in my warmie bed with my EB on full blast...actually getting a tanned rear at present....laugh


Always a pleasure to see you...



hawk69 somewhere, New Jersey USA
LadyMiniMe: I do agree with you hawk69. It sucks that there's so much lying. It makes you wonder each and every time, if the one you're talking to is really the one he/she says he/she is. It has made me distrustful. I'm more careful, but still so naive to detect the good liars. I do understand some of them at least. E.g. if you're overweight and you state that in your profile, that's a big turnoff for a lot of people. You don't even get a first chance, let stand a second one. So, what I do is leave some info out, which I think would turn off people, until they get to know me better in the hope they'll give me a second chance. This is lying, too, but at least I give myself a first chance to meet new people. Of course, off the internet it's not possible, and consequence is I have very few friends
Everone has their own interpretation of a little white lie, no matter how small or inconsequential it may seem, but if there was a spot in the profile that asked the men the size of our penis, big, small, fat or thin, I would still be honest even if it was unattractive to women in my opinion. If I stated that I was hung like a horse, and met someone from here in person and things went the right way, then surprise I'm hung like a hummingbird, it wouldnt be fair to them. I think everyone should just shoot straight with each other. Some men are attracted to what some women feel insecure about whether it be height, weight, breast size, or whatever. grin



hawk69 somewhere, New Jersey USA
It just happens when I'm excited, and sometimes I wake up that way. devil



hrt4lse Redding, California USA
hawk69: It just happens when I'm excited, and sometimes I wake up that way.


Actually answering the question from the opening line huh? laugh

Squirly....wish I knew the answer...think I'd make a million selling it. laugh
Imasquirly1 Pontoon Beach, Illinois USA
hrt4lse: Actually answering the question from the opening line huh?

Squirly....wish I knew the answer...think I'd make a million selling it.


Thanks to all of you for your thoughts and opinions...

I was very suprised to find that so many of you had responded in my absence( had to work :( )

Imasquirly1 Pontoon Beach, Illinois USA
Hugz_n_Kissez: I dunno but somehow...the words what goes around comes around come to mind and we get what we give....Sometimes when we do things to win the love of someone...that are underhanded...or what we think is love at the time...it comes back on us 10 fold....so it's always good to be careful what you wish for....


I don't have a clue what this has to do with the subject...but you are right...when people lie, or try to come between others...Karma has a way of stepping in.



Mercedes1 Sydney, New South Wales Australia
Maybe us ladies are all on here cause the guys are stingy to buy us a meal and a drinkwine rolling on the floor laughing
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
Mercedes1: Maybe us ladies are all on here cause the guys are stingy to buy us a meal and a drink


Well some of ye have hollow legs and we havent a clue where ye put it.........tongue

laugh



Tamarin somewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK
vinny1967: Well some of ye have hollow legs and we havent a clue where ye put it.........


But at least those hollow legs are waxed and smooth as a babies bottom!laugh tongue
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
Tamarin: But at least those hollow legs are waxed and smooth as a babies bottom!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

You keep this up and I am goin to get it done......laugh

Back to Op............super



Tamarin somewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK
vinny1967: You keep this up and I am goin to get it done......

Back to Op............


I will do the back, legs and chest especially if I have had a bad working day and need to ventrolling on the floor laughing devil mumbling



Shymedoh Close to Edinburgh., Central, Scotland UK
Tamarin: I will do the back, legs and chest especially if I have had a bad working day and need to vent
.......hahaha Tamarin..you scared him off rolling on the floor laughing ..thats men for you!...ickle lambs rolling on the floor laughing
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
Tamarin: I will do the back, legs and chest especially if I have had a bad working day and need to vent


doh I wish I had hair on my chest.......crying

It grows everywhere I dont want it to.........laugh
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
Shymedoh: .......hahaha Tamarin..you scared him off ..thats men for you!...ickle lambs


We're just sensitive...............tongue tongue tongue
justbe Dublin, Dublin Ireland
ditto..the world is a small place really and its all out there for the reaching..people are so fascinating, some good some bad, but hey, we are all unique in our own special way, there are some awesome friendships to be made from all cultures and walks of life..and honesty..if one feels whole inside themselves and happy with whom they are, there is no need to be dishonest, one is actually desceving themselves..live life for the approval of oneself and not for the approval of others, how else could one be happy and whole...just my thoughts..



Tamarin somewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK
vinny1967: I wish I had hair on my chest.......

It grows everywhere I dont want it to.........



Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm the mind is boggling!

Blue fluff...sorry could not help myselfdevil

Sorry will stop hijacking threads!




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