LadyMiniMe: I do agree with you hawk69. It sucks that there's so much lying. It makes you wonder each and every time, if the one you're talking to is really the one he/she says he/she is. It has made me distrustful. I'm more careful, but still so naive to detect the good liars. I do understand some of them at least. E.g. if you're overweight and you state that in your profile, that's a big turnoff for a lot of people. You don't even get a first chance, let stand a second one. So, what I do is leave some info out, which I think would turn off people, until they get to know me better in the hope they'll give me a second chance. This is lying, too, but at least I give myself a first chance to meet new people. Of course, off the internet it's not possible, and consequence is I have very few friends
Everone has their own interpretation of a little white lie, no matter how small or inconsequential it may seem, but if there was a spot in the profile that asked the men the size of our penis, big, small, fat or thin, I would still be honest even if it was unattractive to women in my opinion. If I stated that I was hung like a horse, and met someone from here in person and things went the right way, then surprise I'm hung like a hummingbird, it wouldnt be fair to them. I think everyone should just shoot straight with each other. Some men are attracted to what some women feel insecure about whether it be height, weight, breast size, or whatever.