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Abram good answer ,we must be positive ,not negative.::wine:

Yes I would

Just say no to mangling foreign languages Wixie.

I could mangle a soup sandwich...oh well!!!

No, you should concentrate on only those who live within a 50 mile radius for convenience .......

Most likely no,
A lot of this depends on 1.what all we own 2.our financial and living conditions. 3. does she have kids?

I am just realistic. and NOT looking for flings or one night stands.

have just moved here, own my home, and kids are grown.
All is paid for, so all I have to pay is taxes and utilities.

so no, not going to sell it all just to move somewhere else and end up paying rent or house payments for someone else.

So, meeting is in the hopes of starting a relationship, so why waste $$$ to go see them far off unless they are willing to move here,
I have raised my kids, so it is my time, WONT start over with someone elses kids,
but also based on reality...if she has kids, and Daddy is still in the picture, usually she can not leave the state with them or much less to another Country!
so then it becomes a matter that the Man is the one that HAS to relocate.

this is a different matter entirely for a man that has nothing, owns nothing.. then he has nothing to loose.
and by what I see, if he owns nothing and no job and in many cases has a criminal history and or has been in prison.

Am I over thinking it?
Thats just me.

sad thing is.. Many women are so desperate that they buy all of the lines from these guys just because she don't want to be alone.

maybe yes ,but maybe u find ,u compatible person to long distance-love has no frontiers love breaks all roads

I use the K.I.S.S. principle: Keep It Simple Stupid.

There is a saying........DON'T GAMBLE WITH WHAT YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO LOOSE!

well i can accept u opinion ,u have some principles and is normal u must be compatible with that person,and other things but i can not accept u say many women are desperate to buy tickets and flyjust not to be alone,from my point of view i have a good job i am respected in my town ,and i am not desperate to fly for a man just not be alone,i prefer be alone instead to be near the wrong guy,i have my principles.

i hope one should go.

There is also a saying:LOVE IS BLIND

I would have to feel very comfortable after many phone
conversations before traveling a great distance. We
do not know who is going to walk into our life and be
the one we want to be with for a lifetime.

it depends how strong your love is for the person,travelling
is good,new life,see people at the airport lounge,hotel places,
different nationalities meet,fighting loneliness,meeting new people,change the environment,care,sincere,open hearts,havung a job,ambition,want a family in future,friendships,adapt,patience,
tired of staying in the same place,hope,joy,happyness,time,meaning,society,self-respect,

and if she refuses and sleps u?

Have and would .... or do I mean that I have wood

The conditions have to be right of course.

Thats just it, I said MANY... Not all.
I just look at both sides of the coin.
But also agree.. I to would stay alone before being with the wrong partner, patient.. I am willing and able to wait.

One good example.. I have a younger friend here that met a gal online...she lived in another state, both claimed to have good jobs, nice cars and he claimed to have a home.
she moved here, then in reality, neither had jobs for a long time, no cars at all, and they still to this day live in a cheap roach infested apartment living on necec and food stamps and whatever handouts they can get from local churches....

I just wont live that way.

LMAO-- Blind- But not stupid!

I doubt it very much.

I´ve already made my move from the UK to Spain and I´m extremely happy here.

Visitors are welcome though!