claudya: well i can accept u opinion ,u have some principles and is normal u must be compatible with that person,and other things but i can not accept u say many women are desperate to buy tickets and flyjust not to be alone,from my point of view i have a good job i am respected in my town ,and i am not desperate to fly for a man just not be alone,i prefer be alone instead to be near the wrong guy,i have my principles.
Very good answer claudy, and take it from experience, your principles would be greatly tested here in America, of both culture shock, and the desires of individuals, who would gladly take advantage of your innocense to its pitfalls. I learned a lesson, of years ago, being in S. America of my faiths direction, and marrying a lady while there. I should have stayed there with the family, in the Amazon area where she was well respected, had a business of her own. Sometime after our marriage we relocated to America, and its possessions, possessions of individual passions, bit, by bit, eroded our lives together. Much the same way it is responsible for the erosion of a great amount of American marriages today. Both the man, and the lady, could be right as rain for each other, but the intermintent hail stones of the opposing cold winds, blowing from the left can wreak havoc.