rasgumby: Thats just it, I said MANY... Not all.
I just look at both sides of the coin.
But also agree.. I to would stay alone before being with the wrong partner, patient.. I am willing and able to wait.
One good example.. I have a younger friend here that met a gal online...she lived in another state, both claimed to have good jobs, nice cars and he claimed to have a home.
she moved here, then in reality, neither had jobs for a long time, no cars at all, and they still to this day live in a cheap roach infested apartment living on necec and food stamps and whatever handouts they can get from local churches....
I just wont live that way.
well maybe at .love each other they gaing something at least