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TurkishDelight Dublin, Dublin Ireland
pretzelman: I am here to have fun...and that is that.


Starlin!! If I get over to you and give you one of those thingys you would be suffocating right now. mumbling

Do you not get sick and tired of all the doom and gloom and huggy crap on here these days..I do

Times I have been on hear to let my brain switch off turn into momnets where I want to excavated my skull with a spoon just to get some release from the doom and gloom lately. I deal with enough outside of here, juts tired of reading it here day in day out.




livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
jbibiza: Which is what makes for an interesting conversation! I have a good group of friends, but we all think so much alike about issues that conversations are all agreements... I come on here to hear other points of view and hopefully have some good information exchanges.


on the basics we (my family do agree)
but we try keep it nice ,
if there are areas where we don't concur thumbs up

# 1 would be not to regulate each other,

live and let live thumbs up

it is the same in any society ,

in real life or online !
TurkishDelight Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Dawn7z: That is true I didn't expect it but have really found a lot of women on this forum that I have come to respect and for each of them they look at life through a bit different angle than I do so it helps even when I don't quite see where someone else is coming from or if they maybe point something out to me. It's all learning and I frankly as a loner most of my life am on here to "play nice" with others and develop better social skills.


Thats it..as Mags jumps up and down..that is what has been rattling round my head dancing

But today I dont want to be nice, I want to be able to express my opinion and not have some muppet take offense to it

And if you put any more those teddys up Dawn baby , best get an an appointment with your Doc for an extration from that very special placegrin



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
TurkishDelight: Thats it..as Mags jumps up and down..that is what has been rattling round my head

But today I dont want to be nice, I want to be able to express my opinion and not have some muppet take offense to it

And if you put any more those teddys up Dawn baby , best get an an appointment with your Doc for an extration from that very special place


Uhh sounds painful,
sigh


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing



Jan1305 Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain
livinglarge: sorry Jan,

you did compare and contrast the EU forum with the International


Aaagh! I made an observation and asked for opinions as to why this thread hijacking doesn´t happen to the same degree, not a full scale comparison or criticism.

I´m sure you could say the same thing about the Irish forum.

I wander over to IF when the EU forum is sleepy, I wotk late and as ibiza said, the time difference means that there is always something going on here. However, that has nothing to do with why Turkish started the thread. It´s about the hijacking of threads by cliques and friends. My observation was simply to underline the fact that it doesn´t happen to the same degree.

wine



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
Jan1305: Aaagh! I made an observation and asked for opinions as to why this thread hijacking doesn´t happen to the same degree, not a full scale comparison or criticism.

I´m sure you could say the same thing about the Irish forum.

I wander over to IF when the EU forum is sleepy, I wotk late and as ibiza said, the time difference means that there is always something going on here. However, that has nothing to do with why Turkish started the thread. It´s about the hijacking of threads by cliques and friends. My observation was simply to underline the fact that it doesn´t happen to the same degree.


But there are many more people on the International
forum,

of course there is going to be more interaction,

so what the point you are making ?

seriously , a better class of people on the EU forum,
was that not implicit ?
Perhaps the forums are just like chalk and cheese ?
and there is nooo huge mystery envolved !
jbibiza Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
Dawn7z: That is true I didn't expect it but have really found a lot of women on this forum that I have come to respect and for each of them they look at life through a bit different angle than I do so it helps even when I don't quite see where someone else is coming from or if they maybe point something out to me. It's all learning and I frankly as a loner most of my life am on here to "play nice" with others and develop better social skills.


You´ve made me laugh since you started on CS... (in a good way), you have a wonderful direct quality about you that I really enjoy and when you don´t get where someone is coming from you´re not afraid to ask questions which really helps a conversation.
TurkishDelight Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Has anyone notice a very peculiar thingdunno Very few men have contributed here tonightuh oh
IS that a reflection on those here so far,
Or...maybe the men are tired also
Or... staying away for fear of retribution from the female of the species as it seems to be more prevelant with shimmy
Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
jbibiza: You´ve made me laugh since you started on CS... (in a good way), you have a wonderful direct quality about you that I really enjoy and when you don´t get where someone is coming from you´re not afraid to ask questions which really helps a conversation.


Thanks I appreciate that I am like that in person too I believe that people are the most important thing in life and to try to understand someone putting their innards out there is very important but so is laughing and not taking ourselves seriously. When I get a bit feisty on a thread or too full of my own opinion someone comes along and makes a joke and helps me get it into perspective again. Turkish is good at that and if you pay attention some of our essence comes out in these threads the things that are basic too us that transcend our mode of communication. Being goofy and silly keeps us young. There is enough pain in this life that we all have or shall pass through dammit. Now put er up woman no more missus nice guy on this thread.



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livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
TurkishDelight: Has anyone notice a very peculiar thing Very few men have contributed here tonight
IS that a reflection on those here so far,
Or...maybe the men are tired also
Or... staying away for fear of retribution from the female of the species as it seems to be more prevelant with


lol...

perhaps they are off flirting laugh

that or they think we are all premenstrual giggle



Jan1305 Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain
livinglarge: But there are many more people on the International
forum,

of course there is going to be more interaction,

so what the point you are making ?

seriously , a better class of people on the EU forum,
was that not implicit ?
Perhaps the forums are just like chalk and cheese ?
and there is nooo huge mystery envolved !


Yes there are many more people here, but not so much diversity in so far as nationalities and culture go. Sometimes I feel like a Martian here, surely you have felt the same at times, being Irish?

And no, not a better class, you are putting words in my mouth and that´s not fair LL.

You´re right though, no huge mystery, and this thread has gone a long way to prove that.

Thankyou Turkish.
jbibiza Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
TurkishDelight: Has anyone notice a very peculiar thing Very few men have contributed here tonight
IS that a reflection on those here so far,
Or...maybe the men are tired also
Or... staying away for fear of retribution from the female of the species as it seems to be more prevelant with



Hmmmmmm maybe the dumb blond routine is a better way to attract the guys... the poll "would you sleep with me" started by "eatme" has had more male hits then this thread....laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
TurkishDelight: Thats it..as Mags jumps up and down..that is what has been rattling round my head

But today I dont want to be nice, I want to be able to express my opinion and not have some muppet take offense to it

And if you put any more those teddys up Dawn baby , best get an an appointment with your Doc for an extration from that very special place


An extraction huh wow I thought I was onery but you are thinking you have me beat me thinks you are wrong I have oneriness in my DNA must be a native of rainy soggy very green places.

Honey and sugar to you too darlin.Be careful or I will be so sweet you will barf.barf barf barf
Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
jbibiza: Hmmmmmm maybe the dumb blond routine is a better way to attract the guys... the poll "would you sleep with me" started by "eatme" has had more male hits then this thread....


Couldn't have anything to do with her name could it? hmmmm
gingerb Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland
TurkishDelight: Has anyone notice a very peculiar thing Very few men have contributed here tonight
IS that a reflection on those here so far,
Or...maybe the men are tired also
Or... staying away for fear of retribution from the female of the species as it seems to be more prevelant with


I wondered about that too, and other things like....do women compete and become more aggressive when more men are in threads, to try to subconciously impress them or something?

Might it be some primal way of trying to prove levels of intelligence to impress men, for the purpose of procreation, (done subconciously of course).???

Also wondered if differing age groups of people (of both genders) make a difference to whether threads are peaceful or not???



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
Jan1305: Yes there are many more people here, but not so much diversity in so far as nationalities and culture go. Sometimes I feel like a Martian here, surely you have felt the same at times, being Irish?

And no, not a better class, you are putting words in my mouth and that´s not fair LL.

You´re right though, no huge mystery, and this thread has gone a long way to prove that.

Thankyou Turkish.


but it seemed to imply that Jan,

we all read things differently,
if that wasn't what was imlpied ,well then I am
sorry I picked you up wrong !
thats why the written word can be more dangerous
than a sword , it is there to be interpreted ,
and yep I do analyse some of the things I read,
but not always ,
some things I let go as they are of no interset
so yep I can be at times make value judgements to.

we are all different and its cool as far as I'm concerned wine
TurkishDelight Dublin, Dublin Ireland
jbibiza: Hmmmmmm maybe the dumb blond routine is a better way to attract the guys... the poll "would you sleep with me" started by "eatme" has had more male hits then this thread....


Well ladies to we go dumb for the boys and get our hooters out in the pics to get a conversation out of themdunno
Nah..Id rather talk to you lotlaugh

Jaysus I nearly used that emoticon uh oh
Careful Mags..keep away from the emoticon that can not be named on here

I love a bloody good conversation when the juices get going and the conversing bounces around yet still able to stay on topic
bohemianjack Pine City area, Minnesota USA
I enjoy reading threads like CS Lounge and some posters opinions on current events. I don't feel like getting into the middle of a religious or political p*ssing contest... but let the fanatics argue; I'll laugh at absurdity, occasionally clean tea off the monitor and keyboard. However then must get back to what I'd rather be doing to manage my insanity ;-)

Also agree that many threads degrade to inane drivel; some start with drivel and go for pages. I get bored with it and taking long breaks between short periods of involvement in here would be more my style. I don't have the time or energy to spend in here everyday... truck has been in the shop over the holidays and it's been too blasted cold to be outside or I wouldn't be here today.

Beyond that, it just takes so much time to write and be clear anymore. Then to see someone distort or worse just p*ss all over... what's the use :-( I can't keep up with that... would rather be a lurker and avoid the verbal assaults.

I must say, I do enjoy seeing trolls nailed to the walls, though some must enjoy feeding trolls, I wish it didn't take so many pages like a recent thread started by 'bird brain' er... 'traveling bird' no wait let me think for a second... 'migrating bird'... that's it! I didn't even take the time to read the whole thread, but did notice right off that his main photo for awhile was of Micheal Phelps. I think one poster had it right... probably a smart a** kid.

I don't want to spend the time to follow a stupid thread; however I'd think it would be much more fun for troll hunters to kill a thread quickly and remove posers.

Good thread Turk thumbs up gained three pages while I wrote this. Maybe I'll come back and read more later ;-)

TTFN




JacobGrimm Blah blah, Ontario Canada
TurkishDelight: Has anyone notice a very peculiar thing Very few men have contributed here tonight
IS that a reflection on those here so far,
Or...maybe the men are tired also
Or... staying away for fear of retribution from the female of the species as it seems to be more prevelant with


haha, no one is retibuting(is that a word) me or my reflection uh oh peculiar thing that I am





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Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
TurkishDelight: Well ladies to we go dumb for the boys and get our hooters out in the pics to get a conversation out of them
Nah..Id rather talk to you lot

Jaysus I nearly used that emoticon
Careful Mags..keep away from the emoticon that can not be named on here

I love a bloody good conversation when the juices get going and the bounces around yet still able to stay on topic


Might be sappy but I am really enjoying this thread as I have talked to all of you a bit and know that you are joking. Frankly I don't care what gender is on this thread is is fun. I did notice that you are giving them heck in the Irish forums with this thread too but I didn't have the moxie to stick my nose in on that thread too lol.




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