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Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
Oh, hang on!...I thought you wanted gravity and depth!!..if all you want is light relief, then for f*cks sake come to the EU and have a croissant and a spanking..!!doh
TurkishDelight: Lagoona..the dificulty I have been having these days, is trying to look away from the types children that you speak of. I come on here to have some light entertainment, I have no desire to read all about someone else's doom and gloom..I can go to work for that. I simply dont need to read it on here in every single thread I come across, for no matter where I turn its enough to want me to skoop my brains out wiuth a spoon just to get some light relief
TurkishDelight Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Lagoona22: Oh, hang on!...I thought you wanted gravity and depth!!..if all you want is light relief, then for f*cks sake come to the EU and have a croissant and a spanking..!!


Maybe I will one of these dayslaugh



nurcnurc Longwood, Florida USA
I believe people put into the threads what they wish to get back whether that be information or BS. If there is a thread that seems to ooze with drivel, pass it by and go somewhere else to read!
Kinda nice to know most "date sites" or "boards" are like this throughout the net! I just recently left a site where people discussed drivel, facts, "lovey dovies", "kiss the azz of the person of above you" and threads like that. I choose to go where I feel like posting, no matter what the "mood" of the thread is! Type and let type! JMO!



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
lusciousmile: I'll start here, Turkish. Now, i don't care much about emoticons, though, i do understand how annoying those little hugs can get.

I have a problem with boring people, who come here to tell us how to behave or talk. These same people, have a problem with young people posting on the site and acting their age, or when they mention things like sex. They don't stop there, no! Next, they'll try to *scare* you into leaving the site, by being meddlesome, gossipy and just pathetic. The ranting doesn't end, no. They continually crow about how focused they are, and how admirable their personalities are, but God forbid anyone talk about their own qualities( physical).

These people need to remember that, this site is meant for people over 18 years of age, not 40, not and 50. If they want some peace and quite, they could either:

1) Join an old people's home
2) Retire to bed, or
3) Go knitIf an 18 year old wants to spread some emoticons around, then let them do so. This isn't a cause for alarm, as emoticons are not detrimental to anyone's health.

There have been numerous *complaints* about the youth here, and i am speaking on their behalf. See, we have some really messed up *mature* adults on the site.


Lush you are a young woman with a wise head on your shoulders thumbs up
isn't that fabulous , it took me this long to have a strong sense of self and when I see young uns like you ,strong and clever I am delighted ,
and fair play to you , some of my neices and nephews are older than you,
and they are like you ,powerful peace

hug



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Jan1305: Thanks Luscious, good to have a young point of. However, you are in the minority in so far as age goes, or at least amongst the forum posters, and it is embarrassing to see (speaking for myself) the flirting going on between young uns like you and grandaddies. Maybe because I have kids older (I think) than you and the thought of any of these guys saying what they do here to them gives me the creeps (though I´m sure it´s happened to them in RL and they are more than capable of dealing with it).

The discussion however is not really about this, but the hijacking of good thread by people who have nothing to contribute other than "hi, yes I´m fine, how´s you, did you get enough last night blah blah".


Hi, Jan. wave

I get that, some people never ever have anything much to say. They could be vacuous, bored, relaxed, or just boring. Who knows, who cares! Different times, different moods?! dunno

I would rather have that, than people going on and on, about how special/ important they are, along with their kiss ass entourage, busy at work. Snobs peeve me off!

From the OP, i thought the discussion was open?


conversing
gingerb Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland
Lagoona22: Sometimes yes, and sometimes no....it's a reflection of conversation in the real world....the larger percentage is just idle chatter...but we, homo sapien, seem to need it...we are gregarious by nature...but personally I believe that the internet is the great Pied Piper of our age, and we are all following it's tune down the path of individual escapism and isolation...

...now don't knock me for being maudlin and philisophical....you asked me for something other than sex and croissants..


Why would I knock you. You answered the question I asked in a way I could understand. Thank you. I don't think your answer was maudlin, and I liked the philosophy, even more so the honesty.

Sh*t, did I forget to ask you for sex and croissants again???rolling on the floor laughing



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
lusciousmile: Hi, Jan.

I get that, some people never ever have anything much to say. They could be vacuous, bored, relaxed, or just boring. Who knows, who cares! Different times, different moods?!

I would rather have that, than people going on and on, about how special/ important they are, along with their kiss ass entourage, busy at work. Snobs peeve me off!

From the OP, i thought the discussion was open?


I hate snobs,

what are they good for ,

they only drive themselves crackers thumbs up



Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
Yeah...looks like I'm on the late shift here...this café never closes...ok, who's next for a free f*ck and a chocolate croissant??..angel laugh

gingerb: Why would I knock you. You answered the question I asked in a way I could understand. Thank you. I don't think your answer was maudlin, and I liked the philosophy, even more so the honesty.

Sh*t, did I forget to ask you for sex and croissants again???



nurcnurc Longwood, Florida USA
Lagoona22: Yeah...looks like I'm on the late shift here...this café never closes...ok, who's next for a free f*ck and a chocolate croissant??..



I don't care for chocolate. laugh
TurkishDelight Dublin, Dublin Ireland
lusciousmile: Hi, Jan.

I get that, some people never ever have anything much to say. They could be vacuous, bored, relaxed, or just boring. Who knows, who cares! Different times, different moods?!

I would rather have that, than people going on and on, about how special/ important they are, along with their kiss ass entourage, busy at work. Snobs peeve me off!

From the OP, i thought the discussion was open?


Hey Lush..natter away babes I dont own the threaddunno

Its all about being able to express yourself without the "tea and bisuits brigade" hijacking or censoring...freedom of speech without attacking another.
Jan1305 Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain
lusciousmile: Hi, Jan.

I get that, some people never ever have anything much to say. They could be vacuous, bored, relaxed, or just boring. Who knows, who cares! Different times, different moods?!

I would rather have that, than people going on and on, about how special/ important they are, along with their kiss ass entourage, busy at work. Snobs peeve me off!

From the OP, i thought the discussion was open?


Well yes you´re right, the OP was open, but if you read the second post by Turkish, she clarifies what she meant to say, so subsequent posts were made on that basis.

And kiss ass, not snobs, is the theme.

Nobody kisses my ass here! I wonder why? laugh



Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
Sorry....I should have told you, the two come together, and the croissants are really expensive..!laugh
nurcnurc: I don't care for chocolate.



Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
Well Jan, if you'd show yer ass sometime, we'd probably be all over it like a rash...laugh
Jan1305: Well yes you´re right, the OP was open, but if you read the second post by Turkish, she clarifies what she meant to say, so subsequent posts were made on that basis.

And kiss ass, not snobs, is the theme.

Nobody kisses my ass here! I wonder why?
TurkishDelight Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Lagoona22: Well Jan, if you'd show yer ass sometime, we'd probably be all over it like a rash...


Lagoona..no mushy stuff in here..you can be a down right upfront as you want ...but no lovely dovey sh*te pleasetongue
Jan1305 Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain
TurkishDelight: Lagoona..no mushy stuff in here..you can be a down right upfront as you want ...but no lovely dovey sh*te please


rolling on the floor laughing That´s not lovey dovey, just Lago picking on his EU compañero!!



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
TurkishDelight: No matter the age, judgements will always be made.
At times I have been stunned by what some have written,stories of horrendous pasts,feelings being declared openly and in good faith, even the sexual threads can be shocking yet funny...its the same thing that happens time and time again by a few.Folks jumping on others back to defend a perceived slight on another, making judgments on how another lives..as in life it just doesnt seem fair to me



True! We here, on this thread, are making judgements of others, as others outside, are of us.

I don't understand numerous threads, telling everyone about the magestic walk their flies make in their lavatories, then act shocked, when people know everything they are doing?! I also don't understand hypocrisy. Some people seem pleasant on the forums, but are distasteful, and nasty, behind the forums. The funny thing is, these people expect that they get no reation in public. I think that's ridiculous and illogical. Snobs are good at this. It's like they have a little switch in their heads, that tells them they can control people, and how they respond to their noble presence. I have a problem keeping my opinion about them, to myself. We are all different, i guess.

Again, my problem is the snobs. laugh



Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
Upfront??...perfect..!... boobs suit me better than kissing bums anyway...
TurkishDelight: Lagoona..no mushy stuff in here..you can be a down right upfront as you want ...but no lovely dovey sh*te please



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
livinglarge: Lush you are a young woman with a wise head on your shoulders
isn't that fabulous , it took me this long to have a strong sense of self and when I see young uns like you ,strong and clever I am delighted ,
and fair play to you , some of my neices and nephews are older than you,
and they are like you ,powerful



I appreciate that, coming from another 'easy as sunday morning' poster.


hug (Sorry, Turkish: this girl deserves a hug!)



Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
Oh stop kissing asses...this is supposed to be a tough love thread...professor
lusciousmile: I appreciate that, coming from another 'easy as sunday morning' poster. (Sorry, Turkish: this girl deserves a hug!)



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
lusciousmile: I appreciate that, coming from another 'easy as sunday morning' poster. (Sorry, Turkish: this girl deserves a hug!)


thank you hug




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