somechick: When my late husband & I were first married it was by a justice of the peace. We never had what you were call a wedding night.
If I were able to have the chance of getting married again my dream would be to travel to Kentucky or Tennessee and rent a cabin way up in the mountains which includes a fireplace etc.
Light some candles, cook a very special meal and then after that sit in front of a fireplace,turn down the lites and just cuddle and snuggle in each others arms all night.
See...to me, that's a romantic get-away. You don't have to get married to have that type of time together.
Sorry, I just tend to put more emphasis on the commitment between two people, and the love between them, than a piece of paper. JMO.

(Oh, and yes, I'd love to have a night like this with someone special. I do have a romantic side.)