tainogirl: I have observed that there are a lot of men who will pursue a woman they find attractive. Initially they woo with flowers, poetry and sweet nothings. A few brave souls may even depending on the passion of the pursuit may even whisper the words "I care for you or I love you". All the while the woman may have been cautious but having heard that many of us having heard those words have been inclined to slow down out pace in the chase.
However, I have also observed that once you reciprocate with the same words there is a change, the flower giving may start drying up, no more poetry or little love notes and then there are those men who treat you as though you are just another friend. Some retreat back into their man caves - chase over. Baffling male behaviour - any comments?
I think that is true...at least in my case! I was really hot after my last wife, until we were married.
Also, my relationship with Sharon started off that way. I thought she was unreachable for a guy like me. But once I "caught" her. Things began to cool off. I had to analyze things. And came to the conclusion that I really wanted a life with her. But I can to this conclusion before it was too late
