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Oh well, now i have the answer whether you are stable or not

Easy, have your own life, do your own thinks, have your own passion...this will definitely give you energy.

Oh dear, suck a pen and pretend it is a ciggie, you will get over the cravings, they only last seconds.

Because i want the unstable to stick friends with me

I'm not following your comment...why would an an emotionally strong/mature person ask someone for help/support?
It does not make her unstable if she would ask for support, but just less strong, emotionally...

No i'm not taking the bait as this topic has been discussed and found to be truthful...

Rubbish! Asking for help does not make a person less strong emotionally. It makes them sensible, if I need help, I will ask for it, I am sensible in who I choose to ask for help, my partner, my father, even my own children, I ask for help, if I am stuck in a situation, running ideas past them, that does not make me weak emotionally. Nor does it the next person.

So, to make it easier for you to understand, a person that does not ask for help, may mislead themselves into thinking that they do not need support, and the consequences of that is that they may become weaker in trying to deal with things alone. We are not designed as humans to be alone and suffer.

With whom? And I am not offering you bait, I am offering you my thoughts on what I have found in my experience.

Why?

anyway, i'll try and talk some sense....the saying goes that birds of the same feathers seek one another, so if you are not emotionally stable, chances are that you will end up with an emotional unstable partner like in your given case. And vice versa like would be in my case...

"We are not designed as humans to be alone and suffer" yes, yes, yes!

Now that is better, because I believe in that.

Do you think that a person that needs constant attention is a person who has low self esteem or is a person who is emotionally unstable?

well well...news for you, we were designed to be alone...look at Adam in the "garden" with God....till Eve showed her face and look what happened then....ongoing problems till who knows when...

You do come out with it, don't you? Absolute crap, we are not designed to be alone, you cannot fight nature, Rebel, humans are to be together, like animals are, we would not have reproductive organs if that were the case.

Do you think you are emotionally together? I think you think you are, but your reasonings are somewhat a tad off centre sometimes, in that you have this antiquated attitude that women are the cause of all men's problems, yet you still want a woman?

Because humans are not designed to stay alone and suffer i'm a good friend.

see my comment...initially we were designed to be alone...btw we have more trouble together than alone as humans and suffer more in each others hands...(wars, ect.)

Wow about the opposed attract each other?

I'm just looking at what history teaches us. There are some good people out there of course, be it men or woman...they are just in the minority

Ok, I am turning this around. If we all remained alone, the world would stop spinning. The economy would halt, the population would decrease, which in a way would make sense, because there are far too many people in the world, but we would all come to a halt, there would be no more poverty, and all so that we can become emotionally stable?

Have you been sniffing glue? You look at people in thrird world countries who have nothing other than each other, they wear bright clothes, can dance around nothing, even in the most war torn environments, they believe in each other, because they have nothing else to hold onto, only those close to them. We, with our cars, our jobs, going around pressing buttons, are more emotionally unstable than those people, because we need inanimate objects to help us through our day and our lives.

Why do you say this? That ood people are in the minority? I think they are the majority.

Well I for one am rather thankful that God did not let you take Adam's place or his mate surely would have been Steve rather than Eve as you seem to have little use for women with your misogynyst views.
Adam had free will btw and he chose to take the 'apple' it was not forced upon him at gunpoint.
Makes me wonder why you are even here as it most assuredly is not to find a woman. Perhaps your local sex shop has run out of inflatable partners? As you clearly do not want a woman who is inteeligent or has any sort of free will not imposed upon her by your over-vaunted stuffed self.
Rare is a comment regarding women in general ever anything but hatred from you. You apparently have a serious Freudian issue deep in your mind.
Perhaps it is time to just come out of the closet and get on with your life. At least then you might get some enjoyment out of life and you can both leave the toilet seat up in defiance against women.