cristina: And not always you know the problems people have at first. A night may be wonderful and even lead to a wonderful sex life. Clever people don't throw their problems at the beginning, otheriwse, who would want to carry heavy laggage?
Face it my friend, people need to fight their unstability, they can't burden their partners with the whole of it. It's cute to play mommy, nurse, but you can't do that your intire life if you're not a professional!
Indeed they do not, clever people that is, some people seek attention from displaying their problems for all to see and that it will make them more attractive. I see that people are reaching out for attention here all the time, from the ones that seek mercifully for a mate to the ones that say that they do not want one and do not want to be loved. Which I find strange, we all want to be loved.
I am no professional at being a nurse, or a mother, a mother I am, and if I can raise healthy, balanced individuals and set them on their path to becoming decent members of soceity, then I can console myself with the fact that I have done a good job. You never get to know an individual regardless of where you meet them, until you have spent alot of time with them, for some that can take years and years.
If a person states that a person that they have known for little time, knows wverything about them, then that shows a lack of instability, to me, I do not know wverything about my mate, I ahve no burning desire to, nor him me, it is a new beginning for both of us, we look to how we operate as a couple, to the future, not from the past.