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Come on Capone, have you a glass of wine in St Albans and sitting back and reading all of this stuff? Show your face you coward.

But I thought you had burned in Hell over and over and over and over.....

Aaaawww, what a lovely sentiment.

You make us all happy too, babe -

both: you and your mama

Yah know what I think this is that nutty Indian pic profile guy who came in with that MILF thread the other week.....nutty...as nutty can be...

I never asked you anything besides 'how is your mama doing'.

God bless her.

But there is one more thing I always wanted to ask you (I promise NO MORE questions!):

are you a eunuch?

Oops they would be up in his throat and he would now have a new set of tonsils......

Get 'im, girl!!

Hey Dana


I was serious by the way.

It's either that or an illness.

Plain curiosity. You don't think he'll come forward and reveal what's his real issue, no?

Ouch! that had to hurt......below the belt of course....

He has a hormonal imbalance girl.......is all.....

Something is defintely wrong with this guy.

Hi Stef



Suspected that for a while.

Ouch.

he never answers a direct question, only think his good at is being an idiot!

WTF! Hey girlfriend!

He is just guarding his harem in cs of course......looking after our best interests......


Hiya Laurs....how ya doin

He's not supposed to Morgan......he's just a spanner in the works.....kinda like a spare tool....

Better hope that Huge Foot never catches you in the "Imagination"!

Was becoming a little emotionally unstable - all these overwhelming worries about fellow CSer, but now you made me laugh again!

So doing good

And you?

A mini poll to separate this difining vision of masterful ignorance by the lovely Caponicus...

0-2 years of age. Early in your development, all of your desires were oriented towards your lips and your mouth, which accepted food, milk, and anything else you could get your hands on (the oral phase). The first object of this stage was, of course, the mother's breast, which could be transferred to auto-erotic objects (thumb-sucking). The mother thus logically became your first "love-object," already a displacement from the earlier object of desire (the breast). When you first recognized the fact of your father, you dealt with him by identifying yourself with him; however, as the sexual wishes directed to your mother grew in intensity, you became possessive of your mother and secretly wished your father out of the picture (the Oedipus complex). This Oedipus complex plays out throughout the next two phases of development.

2-4 years of age. Following the oral phase, you entered the sadistic-anal phase, which is split between active and passive impulses: the impulse to mastery on the one hand, which can easily become cruelty; the impulse to scopophilia (love of gazing), on the other hand. This phase was roughly coterminous with a new auto-erotic object: the rectal orifice (hence, the term "sadistic-anal phase"). According to Freud, the child's pleasure in defecation is connected to his or her pleasure in creating something of his or her own, a pleasure that for women is later transferred to child-bearing.

4-7 years of age. Finally, you entered the phallic phase, when the penis (or the clitoris, which, according to Freud, stands for the penis in the young girl) become your primary object-cathexis. In this stage, the child becomes fascinated with urination, which is experienced as pleasurable, both in its expulsion and retention. The trauma connected with this phase is that of castration, which makes this phase especially important for the resolution of the Oedipus complex. Over this time, you began to deal with your separation anxieties (and your all-encompassing egoism) by finding symbolic ways of representing and thus controlling the separation from (not to mention your desire for) your mother. You also learned to defer bodily gratification when necessary. In other words, your ego became trained to follow the reality-principle and to control the pleasure-principle, although this ability would not be fully attained until you passed through the latency period. In resolving the Oedipus complex, you also began to identify either with your mother or your father, thus determining the future path of your sexual orientation. That identification took the form of an "ego-ideal," which then aided the formation of your "super-ego": an internalization of the parental function (which Freud usually associated with the father) that eventually manifested itself in your conscience (and sense of guilt).

7-12 years of age. Next followed a long "latency period" during which your sexual development was more or less suspended and you concentrated on repressing and sublimating your earlier desires and thus learned to follow the reality-principle. During this phase, you gradually freed yourself from your parents (moving away from the mother and reconciling yourself with your father) or by asserting your independence (if you responded to your incestuous desires by becoming overly subservient to your father). You also moved beyond your childhood egoism and sacrificed something of your own ego to others, thus learning how to love others.

13 years of age onward (or from puberty on). Your development over the latency period allowed you to enter the final genital phase. At this point, you learned to desire members of the opposite sex and to fulfill your instinct to procreate and thus ensure the survival of the human species.

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