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bmw740i Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?


well what do you want?
and no i dont believe when you cheat once
anyone should label you as a cheater forever..

people do learn from their mistakes.

but for me once you cheat you are out the door
and no second chancesthumbs down
jackthelad123 dublin, Kildare Ireland
bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?
i was married for 15 years i caught my wife at the time in bed with someone else no turning back it took me two years to get over it,it was hard when you love someone frustrated



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?


I would probably stay, and let them cheat on me, over and over again.

thumbs up
jackthelad123 dublin, Kildare Ireland
kissmedeeply: well what do you want?
and no i dont believe when you cheat once
anyone should label you as a cheater forever..

people do learn from their mistakes.

but for me once you cheat you are out the door
and no second chances
hi kissmedeeplywave



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
jackthelad123: hi kissmedeeply
wave
jackthelad123 dublin, Kildare Ireland
hi lusciousmile, you say that but if it happened to u how would you reactthumbs down
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
kissmedeeply: well what do you want?
and no i dont believe when you cheat once
anyone should label you as a cheater forever..

people do learn from their mistakes.

but for me once you cheat you are out the door
and no second chances


Ditto. Well said, KMD. wine



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
jackthelad123: hi lusciousmile, you say that but if it happened to u how would you react


I gave an answer, my answer. What more do you want from me?
Is it unheard of, for people to stay with cheaters in Ireland? roll eyes



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
druidess6308: Ditto. Well said, KMD.
thank you hunhug
jackthelad123 dublin, Kildare Ireland
hi druidess6308 once a cheat always a cheat



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
You should have kicked her out of the house...sorry this happened but time to move on.
somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
In response to: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?



Only you can decide whether you should go back with her or not.
Only you can decide whether or not to forgive her.

Me I may forgive but I sure wouldn't forget and just move on and try to start over with my life and hopefully with someone new.

If it was me I'd be afraid to go back to be with someone who cheated on me. There's always the chance they may cheat again.

jackthelad123 dublin, Kildare Ireland
well i wouldent thats my opinion ive being there and its not nice



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
is this another thread we will answer but the op will not
appeardunno



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
kissmedeeply: is this another thread we will answer but the op will not
appear


I'll gladly hijack, Joanne, if that's the case.laugh


* My boyfriend has a small one, should i leave him?*


dunno roll eyes
jackthelad123 dublin, Kildare Ireland
hi somechick well said ive being there 15 years of marrige 3 kids down the drain because i left her after catching her in bed with someonelse and now i cannot even see my owne kids english lawdunno



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
lusciousmile: I'll gladly hijack, Joanne, if that's the case.* My boyfriend has a small one, should i leave him?*

okay hun you hijack

and about the small one..

i wouldnt know anything about thatroll eyes grin
jackthelad123 dublin, Kildare Ireland
we are not talking about small ones being hurt by someone you love



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
jackthelad123: we are not talking about small ones being hurt by someone you love


By all means, talk about it, till you're ready to move on. dunno thumbs up




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