Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

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Topher83 Yorktown, Virginia USA
Leave it. especially if she expects you back.. that means she thinks its ok and youll deal with it.. thats no bueno
lapta kyrenia, Mediterranean Turkey
A cheater for ever.
bmw740i Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Ok, talked to her yesterday, went back to get my stuff, and then ended up staying overnight.we f....d three and a half hours and it was good, she told me to come back and shed do anything i want!told her i wanna do some other girl while you are watching and she said no problem, as long as it makes you happy and makes you come back to me!What do you think of that?



kippanthera Bowling Green, Ohio USA
Well,I think that is a bad thing to Do.Did she cheat once or couple times.If it was couple times Move on, but if it was once, You can give her a second chance.



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
bmw740i: Ok, talked to her yesterday, went back to get my stuff, and then ended up staying overnight.we f....d three and a half hours and it was good, she told me to come back and shed do anything i want!told her i wanna do some other girl while you are watching and she said no problem, as long as it makes you happy and makes you come back to me!What do you think of that?


I think you both need to grow up.

That is the must stupidiest thing I have heard of.

You want to 'punish' her, for cheating on you, by doing exactly the same thing that you complained she did and make her watch?

You deserve each other.




mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
bmw740i: Ok, talked to her yesterday, went back to get my stuff, and then ended up staying overnight.we f....d three and a half hours and it was good, she told me to come back and shed do anything i want!told her i wanna do some other girl while you are watching and she said no problem, as long as it makes you happy and makes you come back to me!What do you think of that?


Does she have a sister?
bmw740i Dublin, Dublin Ireland
2 sisters, she cheated me once, and addmitted it!Shit, i dont know what to do!



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
bmw740i: Ok, talked to her yesterday, went back to get my stuff, and then ended up staying overnight.we f....d three and a half hours and it was good, she told me to come back and shed do anything i want!told her i wanna do some other girl while you are watching and she said no problem, as long as it makes you happy and makes you come back to me!What do you think of that?


You have our attention, next?

dunno doh yawn
CuspofMagic Crystal City, South Australia Australia
--- she cheated on herself- not you- dont be a martyr for someone elses indiscretions



bjasta brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Listen guys. If you want a wife or girlfriend that doesn't cheat pick an unattractive specimen or one without a libido. You can't expect an attractive, healthy woman to say no forever to everybody. That simple. And a woman who only cheated once is just waiting for the second opportunity (the more attractive she is the sooner it will come). And they have a million reasons. The woman who cheats with me right now does it to "improve her marriage". Yes Sir. The theory is the better she feels about herself (I make sure she does) the more her husband benefits. She regularly takes a cure like that and even if he suspects a lot of things, he likes the consequences.



buzzy biddeford, Maine USA
lusciousmile: I would probably stay, and let them cheat on me, over and over again.


You are kidding aren't you. If not, then you get what you deserve. Or are you saying you are the other woman he is cheating with.



buzzy biddeford, Maine USA
bjasta: Listen guys. If you want a wife or girlfriend that doesn't cheat pick an unattractive specimen or one without a libido. You can't expect an attractive, healthy woman to say no forever to everybody. That simple. And a woman who only cheated once is just waiting for the second opportunity (the more attractive she is the sooner it will come). And they have a million reasons. The woman who cheats with me right now does it to "improve her marriage". Yes Sir. The theory is the better she feels about herself (I make sure she does) the more her husband benefits. She regularly takes a cure like that and even if he suspects a lot of things, he likes the consequences.


What? Your joking, right? You keep that up, you'll be catching a piece of lead from a husband that doesn't think that way. No way in God's green earth would I ever bang another man's wife. This is another problem with this world, no morals!



bjasta brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
buzzy: What? Your joking, right? You keep that up, you'll be catching a piece of lead from a husband that doesn't think that way. No way in God's green earth would I ever bang another man's wife. This is another problem with this world, no morals!


I'm not joking at all. If you ignore all interesting women just because they are married you will miss a lot in your life. And everybody else will have the nice experiences. A little maso no? Cheating wives are not necessarily evil. The sad truth is that a lot of interesting women are married and want to remain married for whatever reason, that's all. Seriously, there are a lot of potential rewards in a "swan" relationships but "ducks" have more fun and get to see places. I gave up judging a long time ago. (By the way I have been a perfectly loyal husband for 20 years and ended up as a single father with no time for a new relationship-that was my reward)
sodamncute stratford, Taranaki New Zealand
Once a cheater always a cheater id move on and find someone better
Sommerauer71: I think you both need to grow up.

That is the must stupidiest thing I have heard of.

You want to 'punish' her, for cheating on you, by doing exactly the same thing that you complained she did and make her watch?

You deserve each other.
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virgiomonkey Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?


Correct....!!!!Once a Cheater,always a Cheater....!!!!And don't be surprise that 'She'(Woman,are the 'Masters' on this one) will play mind games on you,to 'hint' or 'Justify' it was your 'Fault' that She cheated.Once a 'trust' is broken,it will never be the same,move on,learn from the experience, and 'live' your Life. John Dutchiehandshake cheers thumbs up
JamesBraginton Palm Desert, California USA
bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?


U are totally going about it wrong. It doesn't matter if she is a cheater. U need to go out with more than one woman. Don't let some person control u. U are being controlled. Change your life and date more than one woman. Preferibly,,date three. Believe me, u won't have time to think of that controlling broad.
constanza Los Angeles, California USA
bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?



Who the hell is she to expect anything after something like that? Loyalty is very important; disloyal individuals have a way of backstabbing you one way or another if given ample time and opportunity. So my advice would be to end it.



vietcutie HCM, Ho Chi Minh Vietnam
For me, if you cheat on me once, then it's the end. It is either if I forgive you, the relationship will never be the same as before coz I am hurt already or I don't trust you anymore.

Better find out the other who respect you and treasure...heart wings



takeit4granted new berlin, Wisconsin USA

hmmmm,,says you've been on the site since july,,and "long term" for relationship preference,,maybe she saw your dating site profile?tongue




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