Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE Somewhere, California USA
Be careful what you ask for you may get it. She told you the truth. You should honor her for that.
You have not taken her as a wife. Have you cheated? Are you lovers or roomates?
Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
"If my man cheated on me,I'd have his balls in a bag."


uh oh



takeit4granted new berlin, Wisconsin USA
Polarbutterfly: "If my man cheated on me,I'd have his balls in a bag."


ack,,, that'll leave a scarcrying bouquet
Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
takeit4granted: ack,,, that'll leave a scar


frustrated




grin
Ambrose2007 Badger, South Dakota USA
Polarbutterfly: "If my man cheated on me,I'd have his balls in a bag."


Paper or plastic?confused
Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
Ambrose2007: Paper or plastic?




sad flower
DevilsNeverCry New York, New York USA
hmmm....thats hard to make a decision. actually it depends how deep is your trust to her and how good you know her. it´s seems to be she is never doing it again maybe you should give her a second chance but not immediatly. the same shit was happend to me. my girlfriend and i had a break of one year and then it was really hard for me to build up my trust to her again. today we're in a good working relationship that is holding up since 2 years again. so nobody can take the decision for you. i think it is a very hard way to go if you choose a second try with her but it can to be worth the effort.

paul
moonlove chiang mai, Amphoe Bang Kapi Thailand
bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?


For me, i think, nothing is worse than when your lover cheat to you, i can understand but i can not accept that....
that is hurt, especailly aperson who you love and trust lie to you...but some people learning by mistake

for me, if my lover cheat to me, that mean you don't love so sorry for that, no second chance, prevention is better than cure...
devil
Scubadiva Strasbourg, Alsace France
bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?


My honest opinion: Don't go back. If you do, you're setting yourself up to possibly be cheated on again. She's quite sure of herself if she expects you to come back. That tells me that she thinks you're so "on the hook" that you'll put up with anything. Have some dignity, man. Find a girl that you can trust!

HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Scubadiva: My honest opinion: Don't go back. If you do, you're setting yourself up to possibly be cheated on again. She's quite sure of herself if she expects you to come back. That tells me that she thinks you're so "on the hook" that you'll put up with anything. Have some dignity, man. Find a girl that you can trust!


WHERE???????????confused

grin
HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
lapta: A cheater for ever.


OH Christ!!!!!!!! Another great one that knows perfectly all human minds..doh
Scubadiva Strasbourg, Alsace France
HJFinAZ: WHERE???????????


laugh

Oh ye of little faith! laugh

I'm sure there are plenty in Dublin. He's a young spud and judging by the picture, not bad looking. You know, he's lucky he found out now, rather than after years of dating or marriage.
somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
In response to: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?


I'd move on.



petegozo Victoria, Gozo Malta
bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?



Move on with your life buddy or you might be in for a big hurting.handshake
HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Scubadiva: Oh ye of little faith!

I'm sure there are plenty in Dublin. He's a young spud and judging by the picture, not bad looking. You know, he's lucky he found out now, rather than after years of dating or marriage.


But I am in Phoenix...sigh What good is one in Dublin?confused

grin
blueyes34 new orleans, Louisiana USA
ok pal i will define it as this...a cheater is the same thing as a drug addict...if she cheats again she has to have that new feeling inside her...it makes her feel good just like the drug fix...if i were you pal i would pack it in kick her ass to the curve and look for something decent...i hate to break this to you but there are many woman who are faithful out there...sorry it happenend to you but live with it...except it for what its worth...she will bring you down with her if you go back to her...that would be the biggest mistake of your life you would always be looking over your shoulder....so start your life over...
HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
popcorn
Wednesday74 Central, Florida USA
Move on cutie

kiss
L00kin4L0v3 Chesapeake, Virginia USA
For me i honestly think that once that Having sex with someone else barrier has been broken there is no coming back! When someone takes ALL that is sacred between you and just gives it away without consideration of the way it might make you feel or what it could do to your relationship than ... that should be it! but if she didnt sexually cheat on you... than i think its workable! at the end of day its your decision. do you think you could ever trust her again???



snugglebunnie Dover, New Jersey USA
Exactly !!!
buzzy: If she cheated on you then she is not happy or feels unfulfilled in the relationship. Those are issus she needs to deal with. My sister in-law has cheated on her husband multiple times. He stays with her, thay are unhappy people. I call them the slut and the idiot. Slut because she can't keep her panties on, idiot because he stays with her. They do not have sex anymore, and they haven't for years. Why live that way? She stays because he pays for everything. He stays because he is affraid of failure. By keeping her he has already failed. If you can't trust her then don't go back. That issue will always be in the back of your head. You will be at work or other places wondering if she is being faithful to you. Is that worry worth it? Once a cheater , most will cheat again. If they cheated with you, they will cheat on you.




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