Girlfriend was cheating on me

ger1916 kildare / dublin, Kildare Ireland

Sat Feb 7, 2009 5:45 PM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?

listen man you deserve better than that ,,,,once a cheater always a cheater,,,,, you go out and find yourself someone who will love you like you deserve to be loved

katekat American Fork, Utah USA

Sat Feb 7, 2009 5:51 PM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

It really depends on you, and how you feel.
Also how long the relationship is/was.
Some say people who cheat have some deep dark reason, personally I don't believe that.
And I do believe that once a cheater always a cheater.

rasgumby Moberly, Missouri USA

Sat Feb 7, 2009 8:29 PM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

kissmedeeply: well what do you want?
and no i dont believe when you cheat once
anyone should label you as a cheater forever..

people do learn from their mistakes.

but for me once you cheat you are out the door
and no second chances

Witchaywoman Carpentersville, Illinois USA

Sat Feb 7, 2009 11:33 PM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

If you go back, she may cheat forever. Maybe you could have an open relationship. Just use protection.

loverboy690 East Jordan, Michigan USA

Sat Feb 7, 2009 11:40 PM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?

stay away and don't look back

longlife Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium

Fri Feb 13, 2009 12:57 AM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?

A woman who has cheated only once hasn't had a second opportunity yet. But cheaters can still be good lovers and spouses. It's not a simple world. You decide if she's worth it.

lookingforlove69 Queensland, Queensland Australia

Fri Feb 13, 2009 1:16 AM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?

Mate I feel for you have been there before, It is up to you if you go back do what you feel is right at the time,
If you are in love with her still then that will be hard good luck and I do really feel for you mate. It is

if you are in

with her mate i felt like doing this

and this

but in the end you have to do what is right for you all i can give you is

and say to you good luck for the future

RayfromUSA vienne, Rhone-Alpes France

Fri Feb 13, 2009 4:16 AM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

lusciousmile: I would probably stay, and let them cheat on me, over and over again.

If you did that, your heart would be broken over and over again, and you'd lose your self respect in the process.

I don't think any good could come of it.

DragonLee pleasantville, New Jersey USA

Fri Feb 13, 2009 5:44 AM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

The kids didn`t have anything to do with it, when it happened to me i used my kids for strength to get me through that difficult time, i`ve got over it and moved on with my life. we talk every now and then when it has to do with the kids like normal people

Crystalpistol2 La Grange Park, Illinois USA

Fri Feb 13, 2009 10:10 AM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

You have to ask yourself, if you can trust her not to cheat on you again?

If you can't trust her, then leave now, because you will always be wondering if she is cheating on you.

Better to move on, that to keep reliving history (her cheating on you).

Crystalpistol2 La Grange Park, Illinois USA

Fri Feb 13, 2009 10:13 AM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

Polarbutterfly: "If my man cheated on me,I'd have his balls in a bag."

Ditto

and his member as well

Crystalpistol2 La Grange Park, Illinois USA

Fri Feb 13, 2009 10:21 AM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

JamesBraginton: U are totally going about it wrong. It doesn't matter if she is a cheater. U need to go out with more than one woman. Don't let some person control u. U are being controlled. Change your life and date more than one woman. Preferibly,,date three. Believe me, u won't have time to think of that controlling broad.

I agree, he needs to work on his self worth and self esteem issues and dump the cheating woman.

wellreccommended Basel, Basel-Town Switzerland

Fri Feb 13, 2009 1:58 PM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

To tell to true it is a tough situation. I wanna tell you something that if you wanna to forgive her. don't make it so easy to forgive her.She must feel that she has no second chance again. But It is totaly up to you how to handle this delicate situation. Good Luck.

dolphin1 Chester, Cheshire, England UK

Fri Feb 13, 2009 2:52 PM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

Its not easy to forgive, you must really love her if you can think about taking her back. What you need to do is find out why she felt the need to do it. Time to really evaluate the whole relationship - maybe time to move on but only you know that. I do think people can make a mistake and deserve a 2nd chance but you have to be sure - good luck

tedashev asheville, North Carolina USA

Sat Feb 14, 2009 12:37 AM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?

If You Go Back she will probably treat you like shit , and keep cheating.
Who Wants Cheating And Lies ,DUMP HER FOR GOOD, and don't look back ,Look ahead , be positive !!!

tedashev asheville, North Carolina USA

Sat Feb 14, 2009 12:43 AM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?

I would say TORCH the house , then forgive her.
I'm trying to be good
just take your licks and don't look back !!!!!!!!!!!

jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA

Sat Feb 14, 2009 12:48 AM CST : Girlfriend was cheating on me!!!

bmw740i: Hi, so i found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me, i actually asked her have you ever done it and she admitted it!I moved out of the house but she expects me to be back there in a weeks time.What would you do? forgive and go back or do you think if you are cheater once you are cheater forever?

Talk her into having anal sex then dump her right after....