spicey1: In my profile it states, DO NOT IM ME UNLESS YOU EMAIL ME FIRST....and yet I still get IM's are people just that stupid????
I ended up turning the darn thing off and stating in my profile that it is turned off. If they don't see that then it's not my fault.

Half the time the guys that do IM you are not reading the profiles at all they are just clicking on a name or a face.