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Not a chance!

People who involve themselves in affairs are low, mean and selfish, and not worth my time!

thats no fair on your part, and if you plan on doing this, tell the person who you intend to date, that you also will seeing other people, and see how he likes it...

most men, and women these days like a relationship, plus a little on the side to fill in those lonely parts of the day...

and I bet he/she doesnt tell the partner they are with, that they are screwing around with someone behind their back...

all this crap that goes on in the "so called relationships these days" all get found out in the end, the truth seems to rear its head, sooner or later..

you should ask the partner he is with, if she would mind, if her boyfriend minds him screwing you in between her, and she what she says about it...

So it's fine to you if the partner he/she is with wouldn't mind?

it just goes to show, that you are considering this, as you already know this person has a wife.

why would you be asking something, you are considering doing anyway, and you should think about the poor wife, who is loyal to this guy... thats where all this broken relationships end up, and you should also consider whether this guy has kids as well, as your actions will also detroy their lives as well...

If you want to get ya rocks off with someone, go find a single guy where no damage will be done to anyone esle...

This will definately not me.

But I want to know how people think about going out to find another one while he/she is still in a relationship.

Provided the other party doesn't mind..

Intricate and delicate sitution....

plenty of if's and buts.....

the instinctive answer is No.

I would however be lying if I say that I haven't....albeit unknowingly at the beginning....and after getting to know it was too late.....

All I know is it causes untold problems....that linger....and at the end one finds all parties have lost all....and left with nothing but sour memories.

So No. Today I wouldn't, and I always make sure that the situation I am in is a one to one, with no other party lurking in the shadows.

One cannot have a bet each way. If you are serious... get the hell away from your ex. Chances are they are the reason you are looking. Don't play the other person or your partner along.

That is so lame and selfish.

Well you asked.

And here you go.

I think it is a bad idea, the hurt and devastation caused is immense, to all concerned and it serves nobody well.

However, that being said, my ex husband and the lady he left me for have gone on to be very happy and have another child. We do all get on, but the pain, whilst it is healed, is somewhere I would never want to return to.

And no matter if a person is living with a person or not, I would walk away.

i believe i spoke to you on email, that you said, you met this guy on this site, and that he has a wife...

Oh not another one, Pete, when will these people learn? Eh?

i agree sommer, thats why she took the photo off!!!i suppose!!! makes out she woudlnt do it, but her intentions are different,
yes they keep coming, its never ending..........

Nop never

I was going to say that...

NO............wait, you didn't hear me???



Well let me turn it up......NO

When they post a thread about it and get busted

Some think their actions are transparent

uuuggh i hate affairs!!not a change absolutely not!

true,,,

I think you are a minor

Welcome to CS

Theoreticly NO

A slight kiss maybe