In response to: Just would like to know your thought about dating with someone who's still living with his/her partner.
Will you do that?
I work with women and have on occasion had coffee and have had drinks after work. Both as a group and have done so on a one on one basis, but, i did not classify those as "dates".
We are co-workers or neighbors, and yes some where in a less than desirable relationship. I did not consider these as "dates". I will not say that I have not at times had thoughts about a few a these ladies in a less than just co-worker or in neighborly way, Christ, I'm a man so not apologizing for my stray thoughts that occur.
To the best of my knowledge, they all except one say their husbands or boyfriends know what they are doing, and the one that claims she does not tell her husband her every move, says "We've been married 12 years,If he can't trust me, the hell with him!".
I still hold to the belief these occasions were not dates. another reason they were not dates... I was not the only one buying the drinks or coffee, we all arrive separately and leave the same way.