Will you date one who is still in a relationship?

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cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
laura225: I got it

I think


teddybear

Anyway, Nobody would do itblushing



FloraFlora auckland, Auckland New Zealand
maybesoon: i believe i spoke to you on email, that you said, you met this guy on this site, and that he has a wife...


I met you on this site, did it mean I went dating with you?comfort

I didn't spoke to you on the email; it was the IM you sent me, and I asked to put this discussion here, as I wanted it to be open.

Just wanted to know nowaways what other people think....




FloraFlora auckland, Auckland New Zealand
maybesoon: i agree sommer, thats why she took the photo off!!!i suppose!!! makes out she woudlnt do it, but her intentions are different,
yes they keep coming, its never ending..........


rolling on the floor laughing Isn't it amazing that you can get other people's intention?

I took my photo off as I had no time for people who are good at guessing!



maybesoon brisbane, Queensland Australia
FloraFlora: I met you on this site, did it mean I went dating with you?

I didn't spoke to you on the email; it was the IM you sent me, and I asked to put this discussion here, as I wanted it to be open.

Just wanted to know nowaways what other people think....


AH YOUR RIGHT, I DID IM YOU, NOT EMAIL YOU, MY MISTAKE...BUT YOU DID SAY YOU MET HIM ON THIS SITE, AND HE HAD A WIFE...dancing
maybesoon brisbane, Queensland Australia
FloraFlora: Isn't it amazing that you can get other people's intention?

I took my photo off as I had no time for people who are good at guessing!



UMMMMM THIS IS A FORUM, AND YOU PUT THE QUESTION OUT FOR ALL TO SEE... ITS OUR OPINION, SO YOU GOT IT!!!!confused



FloraFlora auckland, Auckland New Zealand
maybesoon: AH YOUR RIGHT, I DID IM YOU, NOT EMAIL YOU, MY MISTAKE...BUT YOU DID SAY YOU MET HIM ON THIS SITE, AND HE HAD A WIFE...




doh

That's where the topic started..

I should hire a detective to investigate one before I get to talk to.





rocketqueen geelong, Victoria Australia
FloraFlora: That's where the topic started..

I should hire a detective to investigate one before I get to talk to.




rrrrrrrrrrrrrruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnnnn as fast as you can away from this guy................as being the innocent in the same type of relationship you are speaking of, definitely no would be my answer...........although my ex partner and i were not officially togethor, we were trying to work through our problems, when suddenly, bang i caught he and my best friend kissing, after i got up out of his bed to get a drink late one night (she was going to stay on the couch cos she had too much to drink).......fuck the stories i could go on with about how the signs were there, and i let my faith in them to be decent people rule my sixth sense..........and all this from a man who said he would love me till the day i died



bjasta brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
laura225: No, I wouldn't.

Practically everyone says no. Yet most people do at some point in their life. Does this mean people on this forum are liers, or they on this site because they happen to be the loyal few?
Tomty dublin, Dublin Ireland
Well my partner is from Asia but our relationship has ended, should I just abandon her and her child so I can be free? Or should I just be celibate until I have enough money to set her up on her own? I am a teacher and I don't know when I will be rich enough to do that so they will continue to live with me. I'm not cheating and she knows when I have dates and tell her all about it but when I wrote this situation on my profile I got a barrage of abuse. I guess some people can't imagine being in a situation where the have a responsibility to someone with whom they no longer have a romantic relationship. People with hard and fast rules about situations they have never been in are not the kind of people that make the world a better place. Absoultists are the enemies of human progress
Tom
cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
bjasta: Practically everyone says no. Yet most people do at some point in their life. Does this mean people on this forum are liers, or they on this site because they happen to be the loyal few?


I said so batting yay
maybesoon brisbane, Queensland Australia
Tomty: Well my partner is from Asia but our relationship has ended, should I just abandon her and her child so I can be free? Or should I just be celibate until I have enough money to set her up on her own? I am a teacher and I don't know when I will be rich enough to do that so they will continue to live with me. I'm not cheating and she knows when I have dates and tell her all about it but when I wrote this situation on my profile I got a barrage of abuse. I guess some people can't imagine being in a situation where the have a responsibility to someone with whom they no longer have a romantic relationship. People with hard and fast rules about situations they have never been in are not the kind of people that make the world a better place. Absoultists are the enemies of human progress
Tom


good reply.. when i broke with my ex wife, she also lived in the same house as me, she has her life, and I had mine, but I only just broke a 20 years marriage up, WHY!!! BECAUSE she HAD A AFFAIR, AND I FOUND OUT ABOUT IT 5 MONTHS LATER...

You see, this was a result of someone thiking about having a affair, and went out and did it... RESULT: total deverstation, and loss...frustrated so think beofre you try...head banger
maybesoon brisbane, Queensland Australia
maybesoon: good reply.. when i broke with my ex wife, she also lived in the same house as me, she has her life, and I had mine, but I only just broke a 20 years marriage up, WHY!!! BECAUSE she HAD A AFFAIR, AND I FOUND OUT ABOUT IT 5 MONTHS LATER...

You see, this was a result of someone thiking about having a affair, and went out and did it... RESULT: total deverstation, and loss... so think beofre you try...


ohhhh!!! and by the way!!! we just had our frist child, and now my son is with me, and now she has a new boyfriend...

good swap, i did my priceless son, and she gets her partner...doh



MysticalUnicorn Hamilton, Ontario Canada
FloraFlora: Just would like to know your thought about dating with someone who's still living with his/her partner.

Will you do that?


No way in hell :)
X_REBEL North Shore, Auckland New Zealand
FloraFlora: Just would like to know your thought about dating with someone who's still living with his/her partner.

Will you do that?


It might be the norm in NZ but there are still some people out there with good values...definite NO...
Marillynslife labangon, Cebu City Philippines
I dont want to have a date with person who is still living with his/her partner.

If you are the the partner in that person
and you well see and know he/she date someone it is very hurt and etc.

Sometime we can say what you have done with others,it happen also in your life one day.

beside that we must think others,not only our self own happiness etc.


we are only a human and no one is a perfect person,but if know only what is good or not in our self and for others.

doh angel



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
X_REBEL: It might be the norm in NZ but there are still some people out there with good values...definite NO...


I knew you had some morals somewhere...
maybesoon brisbane, Queensland Australia
Sommerauer71: I knew you had some morals somewhere...


its moral week for all!!! must be the weather!!!angel
RayfromUSA vienne, Rhone-Alpes France
In response to: Just would like to know your thought about dating with someone who's still living with his/her partner.

Will you do that?


Way back in the early 70s when I was in my twenties and it was still the epoch of free-love and I didn't have any kids yet, my live-in girlfriend and I thought that we were "mature enough" to be able to date others without anyone getting hurt.
We were open about it and there were no secrets for anyone involved.

But it tore our relationship (and our hearts) apart and we both vowed "never again".

My advice would be to either work to preserve your present relationship or end it.



Reenie Milwaukee, Wisconsin USA
FloraFlora: Just would like to know your thought about dating with someone who's still living with his/her partner.

Will you do that?


Hell No....... is this a trick questiondoh



princessadele murray bridge, South Australia Australia
no way i wouldnt let him have his cake and eat it to.




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