Tomty: Well my partner is from Asia but our relationship has ended, should I just abandon her and her child so I can be free? Or should I just be celibate until I have enough money to set her up on her own? I am a teacher and I don't know when I will be rich enough to do that so they will continue to live with me. I'm not cheating and she knows when I have dates and tell her all about it but when I wrote this situation on my profile I got a barrage of abuse. I guess some people can't imagine being in a situation where the have a responsibility to someone with whom they no longer have a romantic relationship. People with hard and fast rules about situations they have never been in are not the kind of people that make the world a better place. Absoultists are the enemies of human progress
Tom
good reply.. when i broke with my ex wife, she also lived in the same house as me, she has her life, and I had mine, but I only just broke a 20 years marriage up, WHY!!! BECAUSE she HAD A AFFAIR, AND I FOUND OUT ABOUT IT 5 MONTHS LATER...
You see, this was a result of someone thiking about having a affair, and went out and did it... RESULT: total deverstation, and loss...

so think beofre you try...