3 date rule or 3 day rule what guidelines do you have

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fireliter Allen Park, Michigan USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 7:59 AM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

sure we all have some guideline when we expect to get "a little action".

just curious what type of guidelines are adhered/used from a male and females perspective about when its time/expected for "a little action" to occur.

woody636 Elgin, Illinois USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 8:25 AM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

fireliter: sure we all have some guideline when we expect to get "a little action".

just curious what type of guidelines are adhered/used from a male and females perspective about when its time/expected for "a little action" to occur.

Morning!

No expectations whatsoever. Whatever happens; happens. For me, the lady has to feel completely comfortable; I just sort of follow her lead. If/when she's ready, it'll happen. In the meantime, just enjoy the companionship and doing different things together.

Tater springfield, Illinois USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 8:27 AM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

I have no guidelines in which I go by... No specific set of rules I date by.... Those things are stupid to me....

pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 8:28 AM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

woody636: Morning! No expectations whatsoever. Whatever happens; happens. For me, the lady has to feel completely comfortable; I just sort of follow her lead. If/when she's ready, it'll happen. In the meantime, just enjoy the companionship and doing different things together.

What a man, what a man, what a mighty good man.

woody636 Elgin, Illinois USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 8:32 AM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

pubwrite08: What a man, what a man, what a mighty good man.

Thx, darlin!

wixomwizard Wixom, Michigan USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 8:35 AM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

woody636: Morning! No expectations whatsoever. Whatever happens; happens. For me, the lady has to feel completely comfortable; I just sort of follow her lead. If/when she's ready, it'll happen. In the meantime, just enjoy the companionship and doing different things together.

I feel the same way! All good things, in their time.

woody636 Elgin, Illinois USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 8:42 AM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

wixomwizard: I feel the same way! All good things, in their time.

Hey Wiz! What's up, bud? Life treating you okay?

buzzy biddeford, Maine USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 8:50 AM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

fireliter: sure we all have some guideline when we expect to get "a little action".

just curious what type of guidelines are adhered/used from a male and females perspective about when its time/expected for "a little action" to occur.

Stop putting expectations on relationships. Go with the flow. If it is meant to be then it will happen.

arabella Near Farmington, Maine USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 1:50 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

Three days?

No way

Three dates? Not likely unless we're talking once a week.

And by the way, after waiting THREE MONTHS to see the goods....

.....it was a disappointment and I'd wasted three months

vonney Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Wed Jan 7, 2009 1:58 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

No guidlelines here, just let it happen when the time feels right.

pretzelman Las Vegas, Nevada USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 2:00 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

fireliter: sure we all have some guideline when we expect to get "a little action".

just curious what type of guidelines are adhered/used from a male and females perspective about when its time/expected for "a little action" to occur.

I have never really had guidelines...never say never when it comes to sex. When the time is right you both know it...or it isn't the right time.

Isn't life simple????

morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain

Wed Jan 7, 2009 2:03 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

just when it feels right

scorpiosiren droghead, Louth Ireland

Wed Jan 7, 2009 2:24 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

i follow my body's guidelines if i want it i get it that cud be first date r tenth date as long im comfortable with the person who says there shud be a right r wrong time jmo

redbellypirhana Phoenix, Arizona USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 2:28 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

It happens when it happens!!!...

But I like it when it happens sooner then later!!!...

Imasquirly1 Pontoon Beach, Illinois USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 2:32 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

buzzy: Stop putting expectations on relationships. Go with the flow. If it is meant to be then it will happen.

I agree with you buzzy...if you try and force it to happen...it will never work out...JMO

fireliter Allen Park, Michigan USA

Mon Jan 12, 2009 7:22 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

3 months is an awful long time to wait to be disappointed.

arabella: Three days?

No way Three dates? Not likely unless we're talking once a week.
And by the way, after waiting THREE MONTHS to see the goods.........it was a disappointment and I'd wasted three months

This is the point I was feebly trying to make.

druidess6308 Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA

Mon Jan 12, 2009 7:39 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

fireliter: sure we all have some guideline when we expect to get "a little action".

just curious what type of guidelines are adhered/used from a male and females perspective about when its time/expected for "a little action" to occur.

I don't have a set guideline. It's whatever feels right with that person. I've had anything from a 3 drink rule to a 3 date rule...and none of it's wrong.

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Mon Jan 12, 2009 7:48 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

Rule, guidelines and plans are meant to be changed. They are only something you establish until you get into real life. Then it either happens or it don't.

Jan1305 Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain

Mon Jan 12, 2009 7:52 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

Some of the answers here are very curious, considering the anti comments usually made about first night sex.

Why aren´t people consistent?

Personally, I don´t think there can be rules, we are all different, however I would be more than a little worried if three months down the line, nothing had happened!

druidess6308 Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA

Mon Jan 12, 2009 7:58 PM CST : 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?

Jan1305: Some of the answers here are very curious, considering the anti comments usually made about first night sex.

Why aren´t people consistent?

Personally, I don´t think there can be rules, we are all different, however I would be more than a little worried if three months down the line, nothing had happened!

It's because those posting that here aren't the ones who say that they wouldn't have sex on the first date.

I, for one, remain consistent with saying that I've done it, and that it's whenever it feels right. I have learned not to have the 3-drink rule anymore, though.

I've been smart enough to learn from my past and get to know a person a little bit better than that.

But, if it's someone that I have known either by online and phone for a while before meeting, or in person before we go on a first date, then I wouldn't say no on the first date if the feelings were mutual. I go with the flow in life, and hold no regrets for that. If it doesn't feel right to both of us on the first date, then it waits until it feels right.

And no, I'm not saying you were pointing a finger. Just explaining why some might seem inconsistent at times from my own experiences and posts on the subject.

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