Jan1305: Hi, and no, you´re right, I wasn´t pointing a finger, but I did post because there are people on this thread who have criticised first date sex very recently....and in the past, and now seem to suggest otherwise.
Hmmm...maybe with time for thought, they've changed their minds?

It's possible. Or, like me, they're thinking of past behavior here as opposed to what they would do now.