Polarbutterfly: Whether it be for personality,looks,etc.,
L just need to look at the photo of the person and normally ask myself some questions, but soon know whether l am attracted to that person. However you can look at a foto on this site and 6 out of 10 people have not logged on for 'over 1 month' so there is no point thinking you are going to meet someone.
No one seems to be telling the truth , as in the actual profile name of the person, Why?, fear?, of what?, why can't you just say' l fancy Him/Her' and see what happens...........you won't be shot!, and you may even find a closer friend if that's what you want in life.
Me?..............l've got lot's l like, but l am old in age and women don't like that, well most don't. Then again without knowing the person age means nothing, the fact that l am only '25' in my mind and attitude means a lot to me! I have also read in forums that people 'frown' on it. Remember the thread of old men and young women??.
Anyway OP...l like you, l find you physically attractive, but as you are Canadian, even if you were American l would keep quiet because l know we would not get on.
I hope that has started to get the minds thinking and the bravery coming out!