Awkword situation

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lorax888 richmond, Virginia USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:04 AM CST : Awkword situation

A store around the corner from my house has an employee that i would call a friend. Last night i asked her out, she said no ,,,should i still go to that store? I don't want to make her uncomfortable by being there or not being there. What are your thoughts on to go or not go there?

sassy49senior Itty Bitty, Nebraska USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:09 AM CST : Awkword situation

lorax888: A store around the corner from my house has an employee that i would call a friend. Last night i asked her out, she said no ,,,should i still go to that store? I don't want to make her uncomfortable by being there or not being there. What are your thoughts on to go or not go there?

First off Dennis, I want to say how good it is to have you
back. Will be glad to see your face once again also.

Of course, if there is something you wish to buy from
that store, by all means, go for it. She has her job
which should be her first prority with customers. At
least you had the gumption to ask her out.

druidess6308 Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:13 AM CST : Awkword situation

Welcome back, Dennis. Yes, you should still go there. You were friends, and should be able to continue to be friends. At least you had the guts to take the risk. So many don't, and lose out on opportunity. It should get less awkward with time.

somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:14 AM CST : Awkword situation

lorax888: A store around the corner from my house has an employee that i would call a friend. Last night i asked her out, she said no ,,,should i still go to that store? I don't want to make her uncomfortable by being there or not being there. What are your thoughts on to go or not go there?

I'd approach her when there's noone in the store and ask her if she would feel uncomfortable if you still continued to shop there. You surely won't know if you don't ask.

jlw45 saratoga springs, Utah USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:18 AM CST : Awkword situation

sure......but, whatever you do....do not purchase....rope....duct-tape....and zuccinni squash, at the same time

....she might call the cops....

SexyAttorney Clearwater, Florida USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:20 AM CST : Awkword situation

I would definitely move across town, even out of state if possible. You are no longer worthy to reside in her neighborhood.

jlw45 saratoga springs, Utah USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:21 AM CST : Awkword situation

SexyAttorney: I would definitely move across town, even out of state if possible. You are no longer worthy to reside in her neighborhood.

i'de get a visa to another country...

laura225 Somewhere, New York USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:28 AM CST : Awkword situation

jlw45: i'de get a visa to another country...

Hey Joel

Over half a year I am on CS your profile says 'chandler, Texas USA'

haven't you asked anyone from your neighborhood on a date in half a year?

jlw45 saratoga springs, Utah USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:38 AM CST : Awkword situation

laura225: Hey Joel

Over half a year I am on CS your profile says 'chandler, Texas USA'

haven't you asked anyone from your neighborhood on a date in half a year?

its a very small town, with a small town mentality...but....i did, a little before comming to CS....but, she did'nt say no

....my posts were in jest...but, there is no doubt that can be an awkward situation...but, i also think that people should lighten up....life can be to serious, as it is....if someone said no....i would'nt change my everyday habits because of it....

besides, he could run into the next ex- miss lorax on isle 5...

SweetKim neosho, Missouri USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:41 AM CST : Awkword situation

It may be awkward at first but If you stop going to that store she is going to know its because she reject you by going out. I'd continue to go and act as if it doesn't bother you. It'll show her your confident in yourself. Confidence is a turn on! But yes do no buy the duct tape or handcuffs or anything like that. She may just take it as your a confident aerial killer lol. Jk. Good luck!

SweetKim neosho, Missouri USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:46 AM CST : Awkword situation

SweetKim: It may be awkward at first but If you stop going to that store she is going to know its because she reject you by going out. I'd continue to go and act as if it doesn't bother you. It'll show her your confident in yourself. Confidence is a turn on! But yes do no buy the duct tape or handcuffs or anything like that. She may just take it as your a confident aerial killer lol. Jk. Good luck!

serial!!! Dang phone

jlw45 saratoga springs, Utah USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 11:48 AM CST : Awkword situation

SweetKim: serial!!! Dang phone

cereal?....thats on isle 5....

SweetKim neosho, Missouri USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:03 PM CST : Awkword situation

jlw45: cereal?....thats on isle 5....

got it! Now what about those handcuffs???

dcj22 Somewhere, South Dakota USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:11 PM CST : Awkword situation

SweetKim: got it! Now what about those handcuffs???

bad, bad, girl!! Oh, I'm training my mini-me well.

Hey girlie! How are you?

Tater springfield, Illinois USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:13 PM CST : Awkword situation

That would all depend on how big a fool you made of yourself, when asking her out????JMO

DazzleYou Seattle, WA, Washington USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:15 PM CST : Awkword situation

I would keep going to the store..it is convenient.

pretzelman Las Vegas, Nevada USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:27 PM CST : Awkword situation

lorax888: A store around the corner from my house has an employee that i would call a friend. Last night i asked her out, she said no ,,,should i still go to that store? I don't want to make her uncomfortable by being there or not being there. What are your thoughts on to go or not go there?

yes...if you were friends before....you can still be. Just put that behind you. Friends are hard to come by!!

lorax888 richmond, Virginia USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:30 PM CST : Awkword situation

SweetKim: It may be awkward at first but If you stop going to that store she is going to know its because she reject you by going out. I'd continue to go and act as if it doesn't bother you. It'll show her your confident in yourself. Confidence is a turn on! But yes do no buy the duct tape or handcuffs or anything like that. She may just take it as your a confident aerial killer lol. Jk. Good luck!

I'm fine she is not the first that has declined the opportunity to date me, I just dont want to make her uncomfortable by going there.

Dennis

SweetKim neosho, Missouri USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:40 PM CST : Awkword situation

dcj22: bad, bad, girl!! Oh, I'm training my mini-me well.

Hey girlie! How are you?

i'm good, how are you??

Do you think all these people will believe that I did use to be shy and innocent until I started talkin to you?? *hears everyone telling yes* yeah that's what I thought!

SweetKim neosho, Missouri USA

Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:46 PM CST : Awkword situation

SweetKim: i'm good, how are you??

Do you think all these people will believe that I did use to be shy and innocent until I started talkin to you?? *hears everyone telling yes* yeah that's what I thought!

yelling! Hey Dennis when you go to that store buy me a hammer so I can smash this phone! Lol

Well since you've been turned down before, i'm sure she's turned other guys down before. I wouldn't worry about it. If you were friends before you asked, then there isn't any reason why you can't be friends now. Not unless you asked her out on a creepy date. Lol

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