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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:27 PM CST : Monogamy
I just talked to a woman and she told me in a natural way that she was not monogamic. She said that she was looking for a boy friend who understands that. Well, I understand that she feels confortable with her option though I suppose it is beyond understanding what she needs. I mean that should be a man that takes her option and learn to love her that way. Personally I could not, probably because I have not been educated that way therefore I have many prejudices. However I would admire someone having such a broad view of things.
What do you think about this?wine
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dcj22 Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:28 PM CST : Monogamy
I think we had a long chat about monogamy about 2 days ago.
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pretzelman Las Vegas, Nevada USA
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:29 PM CST : Monogamy
In response to: I just talked to a woman and she told me in a natural way that she was not monogamic. She said that she was looking for a boy friend who understands that. Well, I understand that she feels confortable with her option though I suppose it is beyond understanding what she needs. I mean that should be a man that takes her option and learn to love her that way. Personally I could not, probably because I have not been educated that way therefore I have many prejudices. However I would admire someone having such a broad view of things.
What do you think about this?




I think most people want monogamy...unless they would play together!
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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:29 PM CST : Monogamy
Oh I missed it... I just came across this girl and kept thinking about that. Can you lead me to that thread please?
dcj22: I think we had a long chat about monogamy about 2 days ago.
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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:30 PM CST : Monogamy
pretzelman: I think most people want monogamy...unless they would play together!

A foursome? I do not understand..wine
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Sparky55 Kabul Afghanistan
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:31 PM CST : Monogamy
Antjo39: I just talked to a woman and she told me in a natural way that she was not monogamic. She said that she was looking for a boy friend who understands that. Well, I understand that she feels confortable with her option though I suppose it is beyond understanding what she needs. I mean that should be a man that takes her option and learn to love her that way. Personally I could not, probably because I have not been educated that way therefore I have many prejudices. However I would admire someone having such a broad view of things.
What do you think about this?


Each has their own preference but I'm with you. It would not be something I would care to participate in.
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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:44 PM CST : Monogamy
Sparky55: Each has their own preference but I'm with you. It would not be something I would care to participate in.

Maybe there are many people that would prefer that option and maybe it would be better to talk straight about that. Each to its own.
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pretzelman Las Vegas, Nevada USA
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:46 PM CST : Monogamy
Antjo39: A foursome? I do not understand..



or threesome
Sometimes people, for play, like to invite a third party. Just safe fun and games, if they can handle it. But for my sweetheart to be intimate with someone without my presence would be cheating. This is hypothetical, as "I" wouldn't want this.
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Sparky55 Kabul Afghanistan
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:48 PM CST : Monogamy
Antjo39: Maybe there are many people that would prefer that option and maybe it would be better to talk straight about that. Each to its own.


Agreed. Best to lay one's cards on the table at the start.
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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:50 PM CST : Monogamy
pretzelman: or threesome
Sometimes people, for play, like to invite a third party. Just safe fun and games, if they can handle it. But for my sweetheart to be intimate with someone without my presence would be cheating. This is hypothetical, as "I" wouldn't want this.
So would you go with a threesome?
Two girls and you...(that would be easy for me too hhehehe?) or two guys and your girl?
Respectfully.
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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:50 PM CST : Monogamy
Sparky55: Agreed. Best to lay one's cards on the table at the start.
Save a lot of problems... oh god!
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dcj22 Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:50 PM CST : Monogamy
Antjo39: Oh I missed it... I just came across this girl and kept thinking about that. Can you lead me to that thread please?



I think I'd prefer this discussion to that one. laugh
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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:51 PM CST : Monogamy
Antjo39: So would you go with a threesome?
Two girls and you...(that would be easy for me too hhehehe?) or two guys and your girl?
Respectfully.
Sorry, I did not read well... yes, yes, I see, you do not want this.
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dcj22 Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:51 PM CST : Monogamy
Antjo39: I just talked to a woman and she told me in a natural way that she was not monogamic. She said that she was looking for a boy friend who understands that. Well, I understand that she feels confortable with her option though I suppose it is beyond understanding what she needs. I mean that should be a man that takes her option and learn to love her that way. Personally I could not, probably because I have not been educated that way therefore I have many prejudices. However I would admire someone having such a broad view of things.
What do you think about this?



I can give her the name of one. wine
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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:52 PM CST : Monogamy
dcj22: I think I'd prefer this discussion to that one.

Why? were you horrified?
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dcj22 Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:53 PM CST : Monogamy
Sparky55: Agreed. Best to lay one's cards on the table at the start.



True, at least you found out up front Antjo. Better now, than later.
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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:53 PM CST : Monogamy
dcj22: I can give her the name of one.

Really? Non-monogamic guy or guy taking non-monogamic woman.... the former abounds...
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dcj22 Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:53 PM CST : Monogamy
Antjo39: Why? were you horrified?


No, the other was a bit annoying. laugh
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pretzelman Las Vegas, Nevada USA
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:53 PM CST : Monogamy
Antjo39: So would you go with a threesome?
Two girls and you...(that would be easy for me too hhehehe?) or two guys and your girl?
Respectfully.



As I stated...I would not be interested. I have done this in my earlier years. MFF and MMF .

It was hypothetical. But there are those that would incorporate this into theirs lives. And who really cares. If they both agree to it
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dcj22 Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Wed Jan 7, 2009 12:54 PM CST : Monogamy
Antjo39: Really? Non-monogamic guy or guy taking non-monogamic woman.... the former abounds...



A guy who isn't monogamous. Just joking, I wouldn't pass on his name, actually. But there are plenty of those people out there.
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