Connecting Singles^® Forums 100% Free Online Dating

I personally would rather have a man who treats me the way I long to be treated, the way I know I deserve that I have yet to be treated for I would treat him OOOHHHH so good in return. I've dated men with and without money that both were assh**** so... really you can't go by whether or not they have money. All I know is that it is really hard to find someone REAL and LOVING and not fake or hidden personalities

I would only pick a guy that is good to me, with lesser $
bvirl

I was married 36 years. After 4 years of being alone I
rushed into a relationship that I truly thought would
be forever. Was only 2 years. I think it is at my age
difficult to find someone willing to commit for a life
time. Granted there are no guarantees, but I will never
go into a relationship with an attitude of I will give
it a try if it does not work I can always leave. No way,
for me it is this face you will be waking up to every
morning. Might not be gorgeous but I will sure have a
smile and a kiss to help you start your day. (JMO)

Sassy, do you want a person to commit to you? For the rest of your days?

Is it not something that will come with time?

Honey I know where you are coming from. Yes, I do want
someone that will committ forever and it usually does
get better with time. Like I said there are no guarantees
but for me he has to be willing to committ.

Sassy I think it is hard at any age nowdays to find someone to commit as for me sometimes think I was born in the wrong century..lol..Not all but alot of couples think when they have a disagreement it's ok to run out and cheat on there spouse or not try and talk things out...I stayed in a bad relationship for 20 years because I always thought that you should try and make it work or that things would change--boy was I wrong

What happened in your relationship was in no way your fault. You should be proud of holding onto your principles concerning your marriage vows. You are right...too many people just run away and do not try to work on the problems in a marriage.

You tried very hard but your husband didn't. It is his fault and his loss he couldn't accept his responsibilities to you and your family.

Hi Tina, I have seen that happen so many times, or they
stay for the sake of the kids. Have had family stay with
abusive husbands because they were afraid to leave or
tried to convince themselves he was a real good person
just not when he was drinking. Sorry to hear you stayed
for so long. But now you have grown from your mistakes.
I know in reality I have a very small chance of finding
what I am looking for. but it is better to be alone
and content than to be with someone that makes your life
miserable.

I'd choose the one with green eyes.

A Martian?

Hi, laura?

the second one, money cannot buy you true happiness, rather have someone that genuinely cared about me .

men with money show no interest in the woman or even notice what she does .. all he is worried about is his damn money .. JMO

men with no money are more fun and he goes out of his way to please the woman with whatever he has and it comes from his heart

cheers for letting me opiniate

A man of, " lesser means" you cannot by happiness - love and promise is priceless

i just wana be held lol

Oh hell.........Come on over Doll and we can make love all night on my new Couch!!























I just got it today from salvation Army,
and a chair that don't match from the curb, I just can't believe that anyone would throw out a perfectly good chair just because their dog chewed off one leg.. isnt that what a dictionary is for!!

easy one to answer the one good at realationships cause money cant buy real love.

The guy who was good to me, obviously. That's like a rich guy who cheats or a man not so well off who'd be loyal always...i'd never pick the money over it, as I wouldn't ever truly be happy.

And it seems every decade to be getting ever more lax,
So many Parents just don't care for their kids at all, then those kids have absolutely no parenting skills, then these kids have kids...worse and worse. POOR KIDS (and I dont mean $$).
I have see so many that say "my kids are my life"
Then Daddy gos to prison, Mommy parties nonstop and cant get the crack pipe out of her hand and the kids end up in foster homes or killed.
Then people say it is better to split than to hear the parents argue a lot?? WTH!
go figure.... don't let them hear Mommy and Daddy argue..but it is ok to let them live in a crackhouse

I have always said that I should have been born in the horse and buggy days!

this is easy to answer!!!!!!


ITS CALLED A 50-50 RELATIONSHIP, WHAT EVER YOU HAVE, THEY HAVE, WHAT EVER THEY HAVE YOU HAVE, SIMPLE!!! CANT GO WRONG...

WE TALK ABOUT WHATS FAIR AND NOT FAIR IN RELATIONSHIPS, BUT WE ARE ALL LOOKING FOR A 50-50 SPLIT IN ANY RELATIONSHIPS...

THIS IS CALLED RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER, AND IF IT STARTS LIKE THIS, CHANCES ARE IT LAST LIKE THIS AS WELL, AS ONE WOULD NEVER DO SOMETHING THE OTHER WONT DO....

START ON LEVEL GROUND...

Takes some of both.
Got to have $$ to survive.

So, I would have to say... as long as she treats me right and doesn't expect a free ride