druidess6308: Steveno, that is not an easy question. I think it depends on the disability and the person with it. This isn't a black and white question, but one with shades of grey. There are people who handle being disabled much better than others, and disabilities that would be easier to handle than others. So...good question.
Very well put Dru. My ex-boyfriend suffered a brain injury from a motorcycle accident. We stayed together for 3 years after that. Unfortunately, his mood swings got too severe & his family refused to help me or include me in the comments to his doctors. Meanwhile, I was starting to get emotionally & physically abused. Without the help of his family to back me up, it grew impossible for me to stay. It broke my heart, but I had to leave him for my own safety & sanity.
