stevealittle1: thank you,
sincerety and kindness means a lot
It does, it goes a long way to helping us to know that people are that way.
Look, I have no idea why American ladies are not responding to you, you seem a nice man.
But your post will do little to help you, as they will think that you may be comparing them and nothing a woman hates more than being compared to another, however, as you are so lovely, and the ladies here are too, they may well be kind in their responses.
I am sure of it.