why does it seem , women from other countries will respond more and are friendlier than women here

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jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
stevealittle1: it just seems to me that foreign women appreciate love and devotion more than american women , american women will not even respond to me , does my profile look that bad


Why do ya think we American guys have to travel so much for business ? laugh



AmberR0SE Ventnor, New Jersey USA
sjenner: Divorce is rampant and marriages rarely last in the USA!


dont know where you get your facts but most marriages in America do last. Even that number (50% get divorced) that lots of people quote was proven false. My stat professor just cover that topic last semester. He used that figure to show how the news people misread stats.
The real figure is 20-28% divorce rate in America.
loverboy690 East Jordan, Michigan USA
AmberR0SE: I didnt say you were mad. I just dont think American women are meaner.

yeah I am interested amberrose is that a crime?Well I don't know but I have heard they are more loyal if they are from over seasdunno
jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
mylifewithu: I haven't seen you here before, have you done an introductory thread so every one can see you.

Welcome to CS


I think Lela likes you Steve ....... I would have been picking up my head off the floor had I started a thread like that laugh



stevealittle1 waleska, Georgia USA
i appreciate your post, all i want is someone that appreciates my love , and i havent seen that here
sjenner: Steve,

I am in the exact same boat. I think it has to do with most (not all) American women.
As a world traveler, I have lived and seen 20+ countries and speak several languages. When I was overseas, women treated me well not because they wanted a green card or to be submissive. Quite frankly, we can thank blatant feminism and the anti-male bias against decent men in America. Divorce is rampant and marriages rarely last in the USA!! Plus, most American women seem to have a bias against dating older men. I noticed after 30, fewer women wanted to date me. Most women my age have many kids from past failed marriages and relationships. So go figure.

Here is my solution: travel and meet women overseas! Especially South America, Eastern Europe and Asian countries. Women treat men well in these places! Good luck!



stevealittle1 waleska, Georgia USA
AmberR0SE: dont know where you get your facts but most marriages in America do last. Even that number (50% get divorced) that lots of people quote was proven false. My stat professor just cover that topic last semester. He used that figure to show how the news people misread stats.
The real figure is 20-28% divorce rate in America.

have you ever been married , try it , then go figure



AmberR0SE Ventnor, New Jersey USA
loverboy690: yeah I am interested amberrose is that a crime?Well I don't know but I have heard they are more loyal if they are from over seas


that leaves me out then. i was born in Jersey. It is over seas for me because i live in Ventor now which is next to Atlantic sity which is an island (most dont know this). Probably not what you meant though. wave
loverboy690 East Jordan, Michigan USA
stevealittle1: have you ever been married , try it , then go figure

no I haven't steve but love is very complicated I do know that and Wecome since I haven't seen you before.
loverboy690 East Jordan, Michigan USA
AmberR0SE: that leaves me out then. i was born in Jersey. It is over seas for me because i live in Ventor now which is next to Atlantic sity which is an island (most dont know this). Probably not what you meant though.

no I didn't amber i know people that have met from over seas and they say there live are the best they ever was.



stevealittle1 waleska, Georgia USA
AmberR0SE: that leaves me out then. i was born in Jersey. It is over seas for me because i live in Ventor now which is next to Atlantic sity which is an island (most dont know this). Probably not what you meant though.

all i was saying was saying is , you have to really love someone



stevealittle1 waleska, Georgia USA
loverboy690: no I haven't steve but love is very complicated I do know that and Wecome since I haven't seen you before.

thank you,



stevealittle1 waleska, Georgia USA
jvaski: I think Lela likes you Steve ....... I would have been picking up my head off the floor had I started a thread like that

i have foot in mouth disease



AmberR0SE Ventnor, New Jersey USA
stevealittle1: have you ever been married , try it , then go figure


Just because you fail doesnt mean I will. grin



stevealittle1 waleska, Georgia USA
AmberR0SE: Just because you fail doesnt mean I will.

i know you wouldnt, i would not even imply that
loverboy690 East Jordan, Michigan USA
stevealittle1: i know you wouldnt, i would not even imply that

evrything happens for a reasondancing
Tinker208 Lincoln, Nebraska USA
I am an American woman. This is the first time I have seen you on here. I'll admit that I don't always respond. Depends on what is going on with me. Sometimes I only have a few minutes to check messages etc. It goes both ways, men and women, USA or not,not everybody answers every flower or message. If someone doesn't answer mine, I don't cry over it...I move on.



MjNicesmile Bridgetown, Christ Church Barbados
In response to: it just seems to me that foreign women appreciate love and devotion more than american women , american women will not even respond to me , does my profile look that bad


Speaking for myself and myself only. The dating pool on my Island is very small so the only option is to look beyond my shores. It is not in desperation like pretzelman suggested even if he did in a joking manner. Love knows no distance.

yubba vilamoura, Faro Portugal
pretzelman: They are more desperate????

Just kidding......it's what i do!!




'Desperate' could be a bit fierce but possibly Eastern block women do look for a better life, most are badly treated, many more have been left alone by their men who have gone off to work in other countries...................like for us in Spain or Portugal.

Living standards are poor and the bright lights beckon..........the other thing more likely is,,,,,,,,,have you ever had the pleasure to smell the breath of these eastern block men?, talk about Dog's Breath!!!!!, l try to always keep them a metre away from me if l need to speak to them!!
yubba vilamoura, Faro Portugal
Tinker208: I am an American woman. This is the first time I have seen you on here. I'll admit that I don't always respond. Depends on what is going on with me. Sometimes I only have a few minutes to check messages etc. It goes both ways, men and women, USA or not,not everybody answers every flower or message. If someone doesn't answer mine, I don't cry over it...I move on.



Possibly men send more flowers etc so you may not know, but, the ratio of replies is VERY SMALL, this is touching on other threads that are almost the same where people are experiencing the same feelings at different times.



Czechmate Florence, Alabama USA
stevealittle1: it just seems to me that foreign women appreciate love and devotion more than american women , american women will not even respond to me , does my profile look that bad




It would seem to me , after reading several posts here, that there is another point to be made.

Why is it that American women do NOT reply to men much of the time?(I know that there are probably men out there that do the same, but I dont know that , as Im not looking for one!) You send emails, flowers, flirts, whatever......and nothing. One time, a lady (if you would call her that) said that she did not write to me, because she did not like my profile and several other things and hoped by NOT ANSWERING that I would 'get the gist' of her not being interested.

Tell me ladies....if someone came up and started a conversation with you would you acknowledge him, or would you turn around and walk away and hope that he could get the gist of it all? IF it were the latter, to me that sounds rude.

Even if they come up to you and say hello, and that person is NOT your 'cup of tea', so to speak, you could at least say so then and there and be done with it.

.....And women wonder why alot of men are more than shy to walk up and say hello.

Sometimes , it is enough to make you go, "....Hmmmmm."

And yes ladies, I know alot of this can be said for the guys as well ( I presume so anyhow) .....both sides are to blame. If my picture is not good or my profile is not good...what is wrong with it? And how long should I wait until I do a "profile makeover"?

Enough for me and my stand on the "Florida Orange Juice Crate" about what I believe in! thumbs up

take care and god bless and I hope everyone here finds the person that they are looking for.....And I hope that I did not offend anyone here.

Ta-ta for now.................grin grin grin




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