petalbabe: Hi. Saw the thread and thought Id just say something!
I also have wondered exactly how many people on here are really looking for relationships, or just chats. I myself AM looking seriously, and get fed up with guys who dont want to use the site for what it actually is meant to be - a DATING SITE!!
Nothing wrong with chatting only, as long as thats made clear to all.
JMO
There are a lot here for friends because they found someone already and have fun here......like a little family of nut cases!
I have explained my situation in the past. I am here for friends for now. I have had little time for more than work, I come here to rest my head from a constant work load. Sometimes I use time up and then stay up doing my work later. Depends on many factors...mostly the weather. Long story.
We all have things to handle and its good to have a fun place to sit around with a boogie in your nose and no one know it.