whats up with this

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Tater springfield, Illinois USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:24 AM CST : what's up with this

Well, don't have much to say, just noticing that in the last few weeks that, I totally understand why many people on this site are single.....it seems that we have got an influx of stupid people. people that are in their 20's-50's posting threads and asking for anwsers to questions that any 7yr. old child could anwser or explain, alot of the people bring only drama and stupidity, nothing good to the table. Do these people seriously think that someone would want to date them. Don't they realize that we are judging their character and demeanor in their threads and posts???? and when they cry out for attention and want someone to feel sorry for them, that we are getting a taste of what they would be like to date?????

your thoughts....

hopefloats Slim's Lady, Tennessee USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:26 AM CST : what's up with this

Tater: Well, don't have much to say, just noticing that in the last few weeks that, I totally understand why many people on this site are single.....it seems that we have got an influx of stupid people. people that are in their 20's-50's posting threads and asking for anwsers to questions that any 7yr. old child could anwser or explain, alot of the people bring only drama and stupidity, nothing good to the table. Do these people seriously think that someone would want to date them. Don't they realize that we are judging their character and demeanor in their threads and posts???? and when they cry out for attention and want someone to feel sorry for them, that we are getting a taste of what they would be like to date?????

your thoughts....

Great post! And my sentiments exactly!

Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:29 AM CST : what's up with this

"My thoughts exactly."

pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:30 AM CST : what's up with this

Tater, I am with you on that one. You right it is insane.

lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:32 AM CST : what's up with this

My boyfriend slept with my neighbour's big cousin's uncle.

Should i leave him?

HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:36 AM CST : what's up with this

Tater: Well, don't have much to say, just noticing that in the last few weeks that, I totally understand why many people on this site are single.....it seems that we have got an influx of stupid people. people that are in their 20's-50's posting threads and asking for anwsers to questions that any 7yr. old child could anwser or explain, alot of the people bring only drama and stupidity, nothing good to the table. Do these people seriously think that someone would want to date them. Don't they realize that we are judging their character and demeanor in their threads and posts???? and when they cry out for attention and want someone to feel sorry for them, that we are getting a taste of what they would be like to date?????

your thoughts....

Possibly we are NOT qualified to judge others?????

TurkishDelight Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:37 AM CST : what's up with this

HJFinAZ: Possibly we are NOT qualified to judge others?????

HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:38 AM CST : what's up with this

But then, I am sure so many here do have a PhD.

HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:39 AM CST : what's up with this

Do not take life to seriously, it ain't permanent!

hrt4lse Redding, California USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:39 AM CST : what's up with this

Tater: Well, don't have much to say, just noticing that in the last few weeks that, I totally understand why many people on this site are single.....it seems that we have got an influx of stupid people. people that are in their 20's-50's posting threads and asking for anwsers to questions that any 7yr. old child could anwser or explain, alot of the people bring only drama and stupidity, nothing good to the table. Do these people seriously think that someone would want to date them. Don't they realize that we are judging their character and demeanor in their threads and posts???? and when they cry out for attention and want someone to feel sorry for them, that we are getting a taste of what they would be like to date?????

your thoughts....

Ya think?

If not actually judging them, then at least forming an opinion and deciding not to go that direction.

Tater springfield, Illinois USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:43 AM CST : what's up with this

HJFinAZ: Possibly we are NOT qualified to judge others?????

Thanks everyone for the replies, but HJ we all judge each other's character and demeanor, whether we admit it or not, How do you pick you friends and compainions........... By your own judgements, unless you let other dictate your life by their judgements?????????

Tater springfield, Illinois USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:45 AM CST : what's up with this

lusciousmile: My boyfriend slept with my neighbour's big cousin's uncle.

Should i leave him?

Well since it was your big cousin's uncle, I guess you can stay with him..

HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:48 AM CST : what's up with this

Tater: Thanks everyone for the replies, but HJ we all judge each other's character and demeanor, whether we admit it or not, How do you pick you friends and compainions........... By your own judgements, unless you let other dictate your life by their judgements?????????

I don't... I allow them to pick me.

I realized long ago I only want those in my life that want to be there, and I only want to be in the lives of those that want me there..

laura225 Somewhere, New York USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:51 AM CST : what's up with this

lusciousmile: My boyfriend slept with my neighbour's big cousin's uncle.

Should i leave him?

Dear Lush,

are you mad?!?!!

No - it means he might sleep with

you too

Some day

lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:58 AM CST : what's up with this

laura225: Dear Lush,

are you mad?!?!!

No - it means he might sleep with you too

Some day

Thanks, CS! I will call him and my neighbour's big cousin's uncle, at once.

We need to celebrate.

laura225 Somewhere, New York USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 9:59 AM CST : what's up with this

HJFinAZ: I don't... I allow them to pick me.

Not even PhDed ones

HJFinAZ: I realized long ago I only want those in my life that want to be there, and I only want to be in the lives of those that want me there..

laura225 Somewhere, New York USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 10:01 AM CST : what's up with this

lusciousmile: Thanks, CS! I will call him and my neighbour's big cousin's uncle, at once. We need to celebrate.

threesomes? again?

lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Fri Jan 9, 2009 10:03 AM CST : what's up with this

laura225: threesomes? again?

But ..but...you said i should forgive him? Shouldn't i also respect, his need to cheat?

sassy49senior Itty Bitty, Nebraska USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 10:05 AM CST : what's up with this

lusciousmile: Thanks, CS! I will call him and my neighbour's big cousin's uncle, at once. We need to celebrate.

Tater, I am one of those. I do ocassinally ask for advice
about something. Too some it may seem very minor. At the
time I post it, I need other people's opionions. I do not
try to judge others but I do understand where this may
annoy some.(JMO)

Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA

Fri Jan 9, 2009 10:07 AM CST : what's up with this

Tater, I am one of those. I do ocassinally ask for advice
about something. Too some it may seem very minor. At the
time I post it, I need other people's opionions. I do not
try to judge others but I do understand where this may
annoy some.(JMO)[/quote

You are a very lovely woman Sassy and this forum is open to all kinds of people and you are right I have never seen you judge others but be loving and kind towards others.

There are no perfect people on these forums or in person.

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