There was a friend of mine that griped because for over a year someone had bugged the snot out of him to do something he was suppose to do. One day he was fussing about that.....I asked him this,"If you had done the repair the next day....would you have had to listen to the repeated asking for over a year." "You are the reason for the bugging because you did not do your part." He did not say one thing....the next day it was done.
In this life things MUST be done. It is a part of life. I ask you,"IF YOU DID THOSE THINGS WHEN YOU FIRST GOT HOME, WOULD YOU NOT THEN BE FREE AND NOT HAVE TO BE BOTHERED FOR THE REST OF THE DAY."
I ask this,"IF YOU WERE DOING A GOOD JOB REPAIRING SOMETHING WOULD YOU BE YELLED AT." Most people will do a poor quick job trying to get through and make more problems than they solve.
A mature man will be responsible and get done things needed to be done in a timely and correct manner without being asked in most cases. Look around! make a list of those things need to be done and then ask for others. Work your list in a mature and skilled manner. Soon you will never be yelled at again! You will be respected and you will respect yourself because "YOU HAVE PUT AWAY CHILDISH THINGS AND BECAME A MAN."
I AM NOT PUTTING YOU DOWN! I am only giving you facts of living that you will be wise and learn now, or you WILL learn in the later years. Be wise and learn it now. It will add to your life.
Good luck my friend!