Connecting Singles^® Forums 100% Free Online Dating

Damn, I had a plan?

What was it?

I'm sure you did, but perhaps it did not work out.
They rarely do, when they have a selfish purpose.
Forgive me for being judgemental.
Just trying to spice up the topic.

Yes, a major judgmental statement indeed! Without knowing me at all! I'll give it to you in an eggshell. I don't set out with agendas or plans when I begin or am in relationship.

I may have one or two selfish bones in my body, because we all do. But mine are my two pinky toe bones. I believe you have at least 10... your flangees. (sp?) Perhaps maybe next time if you want to spice up your thread, you should pass judgement on yourself first.

No offense taken by the way, just expressing my opinion, like you expressed yours.....

I guess you know what she is thinking about huh?

You can't tell someone that they are wrong, and don't know what they think, themselves,

If a woman's plan works so damn well, why are so many on here and other sites??

I have a plan! NO EXPECTATIONS..

It's called the process of elimination.

And many eliminate long before the "process" begins..

I think it is called FEAR..

Another name for it - common sense.

Oh, and there is another one - no attraction...

and (!)just listen to this one ... aw, never mind - you got the picture

Because plans are just a list of things that don't happen!?

Good morning, Your Cuteness!

'morning, Harry

Got any good plans for this weekend?

That's also my plan.And it does work well.

What is there "common sense"?? How can one truly know if there would be an attraction or not is they never meet, never have a sit down over a cup of java, lunch, or dinner and talk?

From what I read (and post) in these forums, there is none I really find myself attracted to, but that is just me. Honesty in an email will create an interest, phone calls work well also.

I may meet another and not be attracted to them, maybe they would not be attracted to me. I very good friendship "could" evolve, but maybe not. What I know for sure is, if I am not willing to take a risk, I will never know..

BTW, why not go ahead and post your "aw, never mind"??

I really have no plan. Each day I open my eyes I am
thankful. Then I start my day. What happens happens.:dancing:

Very good observation, Pat
How can one truly know?

One can not.

Now, since we figured that out, let's go one step backwards and see if one can truly know if (quote) 'elimination long before the "process" begins...' the one that is called FEAR
is gender related?

How one can truly say it is?

Then another step backwards -

to where all the nonsense steams from (OP) -

plans

Can one truly know about other people's plans while they themselves are not aware of those plans?

Is having/not having plans truly gender related?



That's the question being answered in this thread. - "What do you think?"

Aren't people fascinating?

Any good plans for the weekend, Pat?

What do I think, I think you're just saying that because you're thinking the ladies will flock to you for saying that .....