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"What's swinging....?".

Well the only kind of swinging that I choose to do is either on the kind hanging from the tree in my back yard or on my front porch.

".............Oh I see!!!".

Been there, done that..

Just not my style, but to each their own..

I much prefer the teeter totter over the swing. The combination of one lovely lady and myself in complete control of each other's rises and falls... well it far surpasses anything that a mere swing could offer.

As for the lifestyle thing I'll pass, been offered and laughed in the face of such foolery. I just don't swing that way.

"Neither do I..".

I think I need to clear this up. I met swing as in swing set. I'm a one-man woman and perfer a one- woman man.i'm not into that other stuff.

There is an old saying, "don't knock it until you have tried it".. I tried it, now I will knock it.

DAMN............. She liked him better than me..

And that my friend is one very good reason for not doing it.

I got to keep her though, I had more money..

Until she divorced me..

I'll do whatever it takes to get some at this point ....
Swing, switch or trade ..............

Is an alternate lifestyle different than being alone? Okay I for it!!!

0-1 partners is enough for me...

NOT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I really do prefer 1....

Me too but the 0 option is on the table too!

My golf "swing" isn't even a good swing...

I actually know a couple who have done the swinging lifestyle. They were driving truck together for awhile and one of "their" favorite places was a club in Las Vegas.

At one point it got to where she couldn't go out on the road with him anymore and I talked with her a little more than with him and it turned out that she wasn't really as into it as he was, that she had only been participating because he wanted to swing.

Last time I talked with her she was worried that he was still swinging without her when he was out on the road & if I remember right I even talked with one of the gals he met up with while he was out on the road.

So this couple, who participated in the swingers lifestyle, didn't last because once one partner is no longer participating, they saw the other as cheating.

I think you've just helped me determine that if I ever find a boyfriend & he happens to be an attorney, then he better not be family law, because if they're all as skewed in their vision of marriage as you are, it'll be a disaster

Don't let John know though... He will want me to play for a dollar a stroke..

Well if he hasn't had sex in awhile you'll get off cheap


J/K Pat

When I first started reading your post, I didn't like you and thought you should shove your opinions up your ass. But I retract that, and as i read and thought more I tend to agree with you on some level. I traditionally do not like lawyers, let alone prosecutors, because they skew the facts to benefit themselves and/or their cases. I've seen too many play the game and it is disgusting. Aside from my personal opinion, people are going to do what they want whether married, coupled, swingers, gay, etc., and statistics are just that. I don't feel that they are accurate, or even close. People are always spouting statistics to bolster their own view point and reinforce their agenda. Everytime I hear about statistics, I think about 100 people I know and attempt to apply the poll to them. IT NEVER works. Divorce seems to be more applicable today, but as cited previously, out of 100 couples I know, 60 are not divorced. Your area where you practice also might have something to do with your opinions on the subjects. If you were in Camden or Newark NJ, crime and drugs are rampant and you could quote those statistics, in comparison if you were in Princeton or Saddle River, NJ werein the opposite is true those statistics would differ greatly with the aforementioned. So which is correct? Surveys are done by companies paid for a certain response. It's no different than your profession, where a prosecutor must only prosecute the cases where there is enough evidence to warrant going to trial, but go forward with bullshit cases regardless of their oath and blinded by egotism in furtherance of career aspirations.