sweetowen: Maybe they're each different! I didn't think of the pop-up blocker though. Good call!
And I wish I had the yes or no option.. lol.. for me now.. it just opens when IM is enabled.. which is really not cool.. if it is someone well below the age you would like to speak to.. or.. ya know? It is never nice to be rude and have to close a window on someone..or have to explain.. well ya know.. there ought to be a better way......